A love language? Yes, that is exactly what I mean. Love is about communication, and that is exactly how these five different love languages came to be. As you read through the following languages, begin to think about what appeals to you and then what appeals to your partner. It is important to understand what you need from them just as much as it is to understand what they need from you!
Check out the Steve Harvey TV video clip on the importance of love languages!
1. Words of Affirmation
Somebody who speaks through affirmations may give compliments and reassurance to their partner. They generally give confidence boosters and say little things to make a smile pop up on their loved one's face. Just let them know you appreciate them and all the little things they do, which you may overlook. They will be happy to know you noticed.
2. Acts of Service
The saying "Actions speak louder than words" rings true for people whose love language is primarily through acts of service. Just small gestures or even big ones your will make your loved one will feel special, and they'll appreciate the things you're doing for them.
3. Receiving Gifts
This is one of the most common of the love languages because people usually associate love with giving gifts. Someone who has a primary love language of receiving gifts doesn't necessarily need something extravagant or expensive, just little things to let them know you care. Often times a girl will recieve flowers or chocolate, but it can be as simple as a handmade gift or something from the heart.
4. Quality Time
This love language requires undivided attention for at least five to 10 minutes. When trying to communicate through quality time, find an activity that allows you to block everything out and focus on them. You could watch a movie or a TV show, or play cards or a board game. Anything to let them spend a little bit of time with you will win their heart!
5. Physical Touch
Nothing relays the feeling of being loved more than touching your loved one. It can be anything from putting your hand on their back, holding their hand, or becoming intimate.
Now that you know all of the love languages, try to use them to communicate and watch your relationships flourish. These don't have to be used with a significant other only -- they can be used with family and friends as well.
Also many people find themselves using more than just one of these love languages. For instance, personally, I need affirmation, quality time, and physical touch. I enjoy hearing positive things that I have accomplished and being recognized for the effort I put into things, no matter how small they are. I also need to spend time with the people I care about; there is nothing I treasure more than being with the ones I love. Finally, I love to hold hands with my special person -- it lets me feel close to them.
Comment and let me know what your love language is!
