Looking Down from 30,000 Feet

Looking Down from 30,000 Feet

I recently took a weekend trip to Atlanta, Georgia. A friend and I were chosen to attend a leadership conference for our sorority in which we were able to strengthen our positive leadership skills both within and outside of our chapter. It was during the flight to the beautiful city of Atlanta that I suddenly went into ultra-feely, reflective mode and realized a few things.


I haven't been on too many trips in my lifetime. A few here and there across the US, and usually I don't feel as fortunate as some who get to travel all over very often. However, during this time, I felt so lucky. How fortunate I am to be a part of an organization that flew me across the nation, not only for the betterment of my chapter, but also for the betterment of myself. It was during this flight that I felt so much peace with what life has offered me. The places I've been, the people I've met, the highs and the lows I've been through, those who I have loved and currently do love… it truly doesn't take much to make us happy deep down. All the "stuff" I place happiness in suddenly didn't matter to me. All that seemed to matter were those things I just mentioned. Life isn't about the things. It's about the people we love, the places we go, and the memories we make. Once we are able to take time to reflect on what, I feel it's much easier to appreciate these simple happenings that, in the moment, may not seem like much but truly make up the best parts of our lives.

I think there's a lot we can all reflect on while 30,000 feet in the air. All I had were a few downloaded Spotify playlists and a small window to the left of me. No phone service. No internet. No social media. There was something so peaceful about being so far removed from it all for just a little bit. During this time, so many memories from the best parts of my life flooded through my head.

"Sometimes it takes the sky to see what's on the ground."

There's a song by Ben Rector that has always been one of my favorites. It's one of those songs that whenever I find myself on a plane, it's too fitting not to listen to at least 10 times. 30,000 Feet, the title of this song, talks so simply about how much life has given each of us. No matter how recently you have reflected on that, try it for a moment. Maybe even pull a "me" and listen to this song once or twice or seven times through.

Simply put, life is so good to all of us, and sometimes it takes a bind of hindsight to remember that. I know there are times in my life where I feel like nothing ever slows down, I'm constantly spinning my wheels and trying to "get it all done." It's so easy to get caught up in the small things that essentially aren't going to matter soon enough. There are hugely important things in our lives that deserve more of our focus.

"I've been better, I've been worse, I have loved pretty girl. I've seen a couple places that I'd never thought I'd see. I've walked into harder times, I've walked out the other side. It seems like you end up getting what you need. Looking down from 30,000 feet, life's been good to me."

After hearing these words again and again, I think they can be too true for all of us. We've all been through it, the best and the worst. We've all had a love that failed or a love we want back. We've all been places that we'd never thought we'd go and run into people we'd never thought we be blessed enough to meet. We've all been through terrible times and come forth shining. In the end, we end up with exactly what we need, what's most important. Life is really good to all of us in a lot of ways, but it's up to us to reflect on those and be thankful for them.

Take a trip somewhere soon. The plane ride is worth it. Sometimes it takes the sky to see what's on the ground.

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I'm The College Girl Who Likes Trump And Hates Feminism, And Living On A Liberal Campus Is Terrifying

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.


I will get right to the point: being a conservative on a liberal college campus in 2019 downright terrifying.

At my university, I'm sure about 90% of the population, both students and faculty, are liberals. They are very outspoken, never afraid to express their views, opinions, and feelings in several ways. There are pride events for the LGBT community, a huge celebration for MLK day, and tons of events for feminists.

Then there's the minority: the conservatives. The realists. The "racists," "bigots," and "the heartless." I am everything the liberals absolutely despise.

I like Donald Trump because he puts America first and is actually getting things done. He wants to make our country a better place.

I want a wall to keep illegals out because I want my loved ones and me to be safe from any possible danger. As for those who are genuinely coming here for a better life, JUST FILL OUT THE PAPERWORK INSTEAD OF SNEAKING AROUND.

I'm pro-life; killing an infant at nine months is inhumane to me (and yet liberals say it's inhumane to keep illegals out…but let's not get into that right now).

I hate feminism. Why? Because modern feminism isn't even feminism. Slandering the male species and wanting to take down the patriarchy is just ridiculous.

I hate the media. I don't trust anyone in it. I think they are all biased, pathological liars. They purposely make our president look like the devil himself, leaving out anything good he does.

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.

I mostly keep my opinions to myself out of fear. When I end up getting one of my "twisted" and "uneducated" thoughts slip out, I cringe, waiting for the slap in the face.

Don't get me wrong; not everyone at my university is hostile to those who think differently than they do.

I've shared my opinions with some liberal students and professors before, and there was no bloodshed. Sure, we may not see eye to eye, but that's okay. That just means we can understand each other a little better.

Even though the handful of students and faculty I've talked to were able to swallow my opinions, I'm still overwhelmed by the thousands of other people on campus who may not be as kind and attentive. But you can't please everybody. That's just life.

Your school is supposed to be a safe environment where you can be yourself. Just because I think differently than the vast majority of my peers doesn't mean I deserve to be a target for ridicule. No one conservative does. Scratch that, NO ONE DOES.

I don't think I'll ever feel safe.

Not just on campus, but anywhere. This world is a cruel place. All I can do is stand firm in my beliefs and try to tolerate and listen to the clashing opinions of others. What else can I do?

All I can say is... listen. Be nice. Be respectful of other's opinions, even if you strongly disagree. Besides, we all do have one thing in common: the desire for a better country.

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Dear Young Voices Of America, Stand Up, Speak Up, And Do Something

Our time is now.


Dear young voices of America, I think we can both agree that we are sick of being told we are America's future while simultaneously being told our opinions don't matter. Now I personally do not listen to the people that tell me I'm better seen than heard; however, I know there are people that are a little timider when it comes to raising their voices. I am here to encourage you to be loud and speak up on topics that matter to you. There is no better time than the present to make your voice heard. Whether you are advocating for change in your school or the government, your opinion matters and is relevant.

We are the future of our country. How are we supposed to evoke change and reform if we can't have our voices heard? I call bullshit and I think it's time to take action. Even if you're the first or only person to advocate for your cause, be that person. Don't be afraid of anyone that tries to stand in your way. The only person that can stop you from speaking up for yourself and your cause is you. No matter how many nos you have to hear to get a yes or how many doors you have to knock on to get someone to open up, never give up. Never give up on your cause, never give up on yourself or the people you're representing, just don't do it. There is someone out there that supports you. Maybe they're just too shy to raise their voice too. Be encouraging and be supportive and get people to take a stand with you.

It is never too early or too late to start thinking about your future or to take action. But don't hesitate to say something. The sooner you start speaking up, the sooner you have people joining you and helping you, and the sooner you start to see and experience change. So get up, make that sign, write that letter, make that phone call, take part in that march, give that speech. Do whatever you feel fit to get your point across. Shout it from the rooftops, write it on your profile, send it in a letter, ignore everyone that tries to tell you to give up. Maybe they don't understand now, maybe they don't want to listen, maybe they're afraid to listen, but the more you talk about it and help them understand what exactly you are trying to get across, they will join you.

Even when it feels like you have nobody on your side but yourself, I am on your side. I will cheer you on, I will march with you hand in hand, I will write letters and make phone calls and help you find your voice. My life changed when I found my voice and yours will too.

So dear young voices of America, the time is now. Your time is now. Don't be afraid of the obstacles that you may have to face. Someone is out there waiting for you, waiting to grab your hand and march on with you. As Tarana Burke once said "Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something."

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