I'm going to start off by saying relationships are never perfect. No matter how much people emphasis on how "perfect" their relationship, it isn't. I'm not saying there aren't good relationships. Hell, my relationship is one of the healthiest and I'm very proud of that. To me, my relationship is perfect, but there's still bickering. There's still disagreements, but that's healthy too.
I've watched many people break off a relationship for one little argument. For one little moment of anger, over something that isn't even worth your breath. It makes me sad - I'm not going to lie. Watching a what you would call perfect, but more preferably, good relationship hit the rocks because of one argument.
Your significant other is going to have flaws that you don't like. There's going to be something that they do/have/whatever that gets under your skin sometimes, or annoys the living crap out of you. But that's in part of the balance. You need the balance. You need to have differences because if you're too much alike, your relationship with suffer as well.
Maybe your boyfriends a know-it-all sometimes. Or your girlfriend likes to talk a lot. But that's who they are. That's them. When you decide to date them, you're taking the good with the bad. It's part of life, it's a balance. You have to prioritize what you want in a relationship.
If you have a boyfriend who's really good to you, always being a gentlemen, put's your firs, would you want to ruin it over a stupid fight? All that good stuff, but you guys have different opinions on something and it escalates to a higher level rather than just talking it out, is it worth it? You're loosing someone who cared for you like no one else. You're loosing someone who loved you and made sure you were happy. Is it worth throwing away something that just had one bad day out of hundreds of good ones?
You may be angry, you both may be so mad at each other, but the love should't stop. A small argument can break up such a beautiful relationship because people like to be petty. They don't like one thing and that's it. They're done.
I'm tired of watching pettiness get the best of people, small little flaws and arguments get in the way of something that could be so good. Pettiness can get in the way and it's frustrating to watch.
So this is just a reminder to stop and think about what you have before you break it off. Before you let the petty monster come out to play, stop and think. Can someone treat you this good again? Is this flaw/little thing actually worth loosing your boyfriend or girlfriend over? If you break it off, are you going to regret it? Think about these things and I'll guarantee the answer will be different than when you're in the moment of anger.
