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Be The Light For Others AND Yourself

"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one simply remembers to turn on the light"

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Be The Light For Others AND Yourself
Alyssa Lee

Each day that we are given the gift of life, we are also given a purpose. Not just for that day, but for eternity. Although we don't realize it, we are helping others in ways that we could never see or imagine. It's harder for us to speak up about the people we love and why we love them, but although you may not believe it, you are always making someone's day a little better. Regardless if they're having a good or bad day, you never know how much one simple act of love can impact someone. You never realize how much of a light you actually are for others.

Be a light by telling the ones you love, that you love them. We live in a world where we forget to tell people "I love you" because we just assume that they know. Often times people will feel undervalued and unloved without a sign and this is where we have to let them know that we love and appreciate them.

Be a light by spreading happiness and radiance. Whenever I see a friend who is optimistic about their day/life, I usually take a step back and realize that just because I started off on a bad foot, doesn't mean that my entire day has to be bad. Just because something bad is happening, doesn't mean that there isn't still good in the world. Surround yourself with people who embody happiness and laughter. They say that laughter is the best medicine and it truly brings out a beautiful glow in everyone.

Be a light by serving others. At times, we forget how privileged we are and we tend to take that for granted. When you serve others, you don't have to always volunteer. You can become an advocate to voice students' thoughts and opinions. You can become a mentor for younger kids and help them grow through school. You can become a server of the Lord's work. When we serve others, we also serve ourselves and we grow from it.

Be a light through empathy. Learning to empathize with others and truly value their feelings is a big step to strengthening a relationship and having a deeper connection. You can't just be there to be there when a situation arises; you have to listen and take a step back to make sure that the moment is solely focused on them, not you. You don't always have to know what to say during a time like this, but presence and comfort are two important aspects of showing empathy.

Be a light by strengthening your self-love. If you can't accept yourself for who you are and how you were made, you won't be able to extend your confidence and love onto others. Self-love is so important, not only for us but for those who surround us as well. If we can 100% believe in ourselves, we can believe in anyone.

Be a light by loving on others immensely. There is no greater feeling than knowing that you are loved. This does tie in with letting people you know that you love them, but loving on others doesn't always have to be verbal as I've learned. Actions such as quality time, buying coffee or food, walking to class together, giving hugs or just sending a short text to let them know that you're thinking about them are great ways to show your love.

Be a light by reflecting on those who bring you happiness. When you see how much they give to you, it makes you want to give back to them. One of the best feelings is not being able to describe how happy someone makes you. Reflecting on how important they are in your lives is something to be so grateful for and something we should do more. With this, we realize who is suppose to be in our lives and who isn't.

Be a light by reflecting on yourself. When you actually take time out of your day to step back and reflect, it changes who you are. You realize what you do and why you do that particular action. Such as why you would buy coffee for someone else or why you would go out of your way to pick someone up and take them home. Reflecting on yourself and your actions brings you to the main focus of your purpose. If you have no purpose in life, then what do you really have?

Be the light for others, be the light for yourself.

Matthew 5:14 You are the light of the world.

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