Our lives are made up of moments that are both big and small. Each one in our lives decides the next moment. No matter what it is, no matter how big or small you may think the moment may be, it has the chance to flip your world upside down. This moment could be anything from being 5 seconds behind a car that was hit head on to being older, married, and having your first child. Whatever this small “insignificant” moment is, it brings you to where you are supposed to be today.

Darius Rucker released a song called “This” in 2010. The song discusses that he doesn’t care about what happened in his past, but rather than what did happen brought him to the point of his life that he enjoys. In the chorus he talks about how every stoplight he didn’t make and every chance he did or he didn’t take, he Thanks God for all that he missed because it all led him to the point in his life that he loves.

As you go through life and find that something you really wanted didn’t go the way you planned, don’t fret over it because there is something better coming your way. There have been many times where I wasn’t given the opportunity I wanted, but then I received a better opportunity.

Being a young adult, we experience moments that lead us to where we are supposed to be after we graduate and later in life. Mistakes happen, hearts get broken, and if we don’t experience those moments while were young, we won’t get to the point in our lives that we love so much as early as we do now.

Everyone leads a different life, everyone’s moments occur at different times, and those moments lead each person to the point in their lives where they are supposed to be. While some of these moments are sad and others are happy, they all occur based on the life that you are supposed to lead.