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15 Lessons I Have Learned Through The Years To My 21st Birthday

The sayings are true.

Presly Phillips

Jul 24, 2018

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15 Lessons I Have Learned Through The Years To My 21st Birthday

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I am turning 21 and I was looking back at all the lessons I have learned throughout the years. I'm sure there are more than I am listing but here are a few lessons I have learned.

1. Sharing is caring

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That saying that your parents always tell you when you are younger and want all the toys to yourself. My mom always used saying's like that and later on it takes a whole new meaning. Sharing is caring, if you can help somebody you should because most likely people are worst of than you.

2. Money doesn't grow on trees

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"Money doesn't grow on trees" is a popular saying and once you get older and start paying for your groceries and bills; you find yourself saying it too. Sometimes you don't understand money until you're using your own.

3. Mother knows best

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When you are teenager sometimes things your mom says or grounds you from may seem "unfair" but once you get older you realize everything she was doing. She is the reason you made it as far as you did and you find yourself doing the exact same things as she did. Also, whenever you have a problem she is the first person you call because well mom's know everything.

4. You can't live life wanting the things you don't have

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If you live life constantly wanting what you don't have then you will never appreciate what you do have. It's like whenever you get the new version of something, another new thing will come out and so you'll want that. It'll keep going like a broken record and it will result in you never being happy.

5. The only person that needs to like you is you

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There is always going to be people who don't like you, no matter how you act or what you change. So, you might as well be yourself. Because as long as you like yourself then it doesn't matter who likes you.

6. It doesn't matter who you were in high school, it matters what you did

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Your social ranking in high school doesn't matter once you get out of high school, it's the grades that will follow you. High school can be rough but the only thing that matters is what you have to show for once you graduate.

7. Treat others the way you want to be treated

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Here is another cliche saying that is completely true. Everyone is different and no one should be treated badly because they are. You wouldn't want to be called names or treated badly because of your differences. It's simple; be kind.

8. Live in the present

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Don't live in the past and don't worry to much about your future. If you live in the past then you will never move forward. Everyone makes mistakes, it's how we learn from them that matters. The future is always on peoples minds and it stops you from living in the present. It's easier said then done but try to focus on today.

9. Spend time with family as much as you can

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Family is important. Spend time with the family that has always been there for you because when you go off on your own, you will miss them. When you are off doing your own thing, always remember to come back home.

10. Friends come and go but the true friends will stay

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Throughout high school sometimes you lose and gain friends. When college hits that happens often. You'll lose touch with some high school friends but the high school friends who stay are the real winners. You make more friends in college and when you graduate who knows what will happen. Time will tell who sticks around and it's okay to lose friends because the true ones will stay.

11. Fight for what you believe in/stand for

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Your voice matters. Don't be afraid to voice your opinions but always remember to listen to others even when you don't agree. Stand up for yourself and your loved ones. Speak up for the people who can't. Everyone has something they are fighting for. Don't ever lose your motive to fight for what you think is right.

12. Hard work does pay off

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Whether you are working jobs or working hard on homework and projects, both can suck sometimes. Working all the time to pay for groceries and etc, isn't fun but it pays off. You work hard to earn money and create a savings. You work hard on projects to get good grades. You work hard to build yourself into the person you want to be.

13. It's okay to hurt

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It's okay to hurt, it's okay to cry and it's okay to fail. You are human and you will make mistakes. Life will get hard and you will want to break. Emotions are inevitable and so it's okay to feel them. It doesn't make you weak, you are stronger than ever when you let yourself feel. Just know to pick yourself back up.

14. It's okay to focus on yourself sometimes

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There are times when you take care of everyone but yourself which is a noble and good trait to have. But, you also have to take care of yourself. Your mental and physical health is important; don't beat yourself down so much.

15. Nobody is ever perfect

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Nobody is perfect and everyone has flaws. No one's life is ever perfect either. Some may be better off than others but nobody has a perfect life. Never go searching for perfection in yourself or others because you will never find it. Perfection doesn't exist so don't beat yourself up because you aren't perfect.

I am excited to turn 21 and start taking on more responsibilities. I know I have more life lessons to learn but I am proud of the lessons I have learned so far. Learn from your mistakes, know sometimes the cliche's are true and be yourself. You will grow to be the person you want to be.

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15 Lessons I Have Learned Through The Years To My 21st Birthday

The sayings are true.

1. Sharing is caring

2. Money doesn't grow on trees

3. Mother knows best

4. You can't live life wanting the things you don't have

5. The only person that needs to like you is you

6. It doesn't matter who you were in high school, it matters what you did

7. Treat others the way you want to be treated

8. Live in the present

9. Spend time with family as much as you can

10. Friends come and go but the true friends will stay

11. Fight for what you believe in/stand for

12. Hard work does pay off

13. It's okay to hurt

14. It's okay to focus on yourself sometimes

15. Nobody is ever perfect

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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