Life Can Be Hard, But There Are Ways To Manage It

Life Can Be Hard, But There Are Ways To Manage It

Struggles some kids face as young adults that can be extremely stressful on all levels.


Young adults are trying to figure out their lives, whether it's moving out of their parent's house, going to college, or going into the workforce because school was never really their thing. This is a struggle everyone must face eventually, however, the stress of this can easily be too much to handle if other stresses are also added on to this. Things such as my parents divorcing and dating new people, and even now moving to different houses. My parents happen to be divorced for now 3 years, and they are both in happy relationships which is wonderful, and my mom is moving into a new house.

On top of trying to keep up with school work which is being extremely rough this semester, I am also attempting to help my mom move into her new house. Between the actual moving of boxes around the houses and driving to and from the houses which are about half an hour each way its a lot of work being done in short time spans, along with the added pressures of having to pack up my things and most of the house. All while needing to do homework, wanting time to sleep, and just wanting to relax on my weekends, but needing to help my mom which sadly means no breaks. I'm very sure others are having similar problems, either needing to move into dorms or move into apartments however most of the time in those cases you don't have to worry about classes or have the time constraint of only having weekends to do work on moving.

Another aspect of this that is bothering me is that I feel like I'm missing out on prime friend time and the ability to stay focused on my work for school. Having to spend 4 days out of my week driving to my house from college, spending every waking hour doing intense labor like moving heavy boxes and furniture around the house, into cars, and into other, the new house is a massive drain on my motivation and mental status. I have been more stressed out in the last month when I was told my mom would be moving to a new house than I have been in years.

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Everything You Will Miss If You Commit Suicide

The world needs you.

You won't see the sunrise or have your favorite breakfast in the morning.

Instead, your family will mourn the sunrise because it means another day without you.

You will never stay up late talking to your friends or have a bonfire on a summer night.

You won't laugh until you cry again, or dance around and be silly.

You won't go on another adventure. You won't drive around under the moonlight and stars.

They'll miss you. They'll cry.

You won't fight with your siblings only to make up minutes later and laugh about it.

You won't get to interrogate your sister's fiancé when the time comes.

You won't be there to wipe away your mother's tears when she finds out that you're gone.

You won't be able to hug the ones that love you while they're waiting to wake up from the nightmare that had become their reality.

You won't be at your grandparents funeral, speaking about the good things they did in their life.

Instead, they will be at yours.

You won't find your purpose in life, the love of your life, get married or raise a family.

You won't celebrate another Christmas, Easter or birthday.

You won't turn another year older.

You will never see the places you've always dreamed of seeing.

You will not allow yourself the opportunity to get help.

This will be the last sunset you see.

You'll never see the sky change from a bright blue to purples, pinks, oranges, and yellows meshing together over the landscape again.

If the light has left your eyes and all you see is the darkness, know that it can get better. Let yourself get better.

This is what you will miss if you leave the world today.

This is who will care about you when you are gone.

You can change lives. But I hope it's not at the expense of yours.

We care. People care.

Don't let today be the end.

You don't have to live forever sad. You can be happy. It's not wrong to ask for help.

Thank you for staying. Thank you for fighting.

Suicide is a real problem that no one wants to talk about. I'm sure you're no different. But we need to talk about it. There is no difference between being suicidal and committing suicide. If someone tells you they want to kill themselves, do not think they won't do it. Do not just tell them, “Oh you'll be fine." Because when they aren't, you will wonder what you could have done to help. Sit with them however long you need to and tell them it will get better. Talk to them about their problems and tell them there is help. Be the help. Get them assistance. Remind them of all the things they will miss in life.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline — 1-800-273-8255

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Stop Over-Working Yourself, It's Damaging Your Health

Whether it's school, a job, or both, if you work more than your body is capable of doing then eventually you will burnout.


If you're anything like me, you have a tendency to take on far more work than you can personally handle. Whether it be school, work, volunteering, hobbies or all of the above (and more), there's only a certain amount of time in the day and you can only do so much.

Coming from someone who has almost always had a full school and work schedule (sometimes with more than one job), I can tell you with complete certainty that this is utterly damaging to your mental health. I can't tell you how many times I've had a mental breakdown because I was so stressed between school, going to work, working out, getting my volunteer hours in, and also getting enough sleep and time to myself. It seems impossible to get everything done sometimes, and I want so badly to do everything, but that's just not realistic. Sometimes it's necessary to just take some "me time", no matter how busy your schedule may seem.

And, let me tell you - taking time for yourself is probably one of the most important things there is, especially for your mental health.

You need time to breathe and relax.

I don't know what it is that causes some of us to be so wired that we feel the need to take on a plethora of activities, but it's not healthy. I know, you feel like you have to do all these things but it's more important to prioritize and just do what you can without over-working yourself.

There's a possibility that by being so over-worked you're not even getting as much done as you would if you took on fewer responsibilities because your brain is so scattered and stressed out that you're only half doing what needs to be done.

Moreover, "workplace stress contributes to at least 120,000 deaths annually," according to Scholar Joel Goh who Katherine Meikle quoted on PassportHealth. Don't be one of those people who work and then stress themselves out so much that you forget to see the beauty in the world anymore.

Going off that topic, people who are over-worked and on the verge of burnout tend to develop depression and anxiety (if you didn't have it before), and if you already suffered from these, it's sure to raise the severity of your illness. And that's not OK.

Take some time to step away from the responsibilities you feel like you have to do. Take a mental health day, go for a walk, or even just get a good, long sleep. But, don't let the stress turn you into someone that you're not. It'll be alright.

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