11 Lies They Tell You About College Right Before You Start

11 Lies They Tell You About College Right Before You Start

"I only miss my bed and my car, I'm not sorry."

1. It'll be easy

If you're a high school "smart kid" this is your official warning that college will be so much harder than you're expecting. Start learning how to study now.

2. You'll miss home

I only miss my bed and my car, I'm not sorry.

3. Not everyone drinks

The school administration likes to push this narrative: not everyone drinks, not everyone parties, you can have fun while you're sober. It's true not everyone drinks, but most people definitely do

4. The dining hall food isn't that bad

It's not that bad the first week but then the chefs get lazy and you get used to it and by the end of the first month you feel like you have to throw up at the thought of chicken tenders. (You'll miss it like crazy when you move off campus though)

5. You need to bring *insert obscure item here*

You do not need an iron or a hot plate or a family pack of real dishes. And even if you decide you need something down the line, you can always run to Target or order it from Amazon.

6. The professors don't care about students, you're just a number

This couldn't be farther from the truth. I have professors who I'm very close to who are deeply invested in my success and care about what's going on in my personal life. If you're worried about your professors not seeing you as an individual, go to office hours. Make an effort to reach out to them and wait to see how they'll surprise you with how much they care.

7. You can definitely handle an 8am

No, just no. In high school you could wake up at 6 am, go to school for 7 hours straight, and then go straight to extracurriculars or an after-school job. Don't plan on doing that in college. You'll go to one or two classes and then need to take a nap.

8. The grades are just the midterm and the final

While some classes are structured so the only grades are the midterm and the final, most aren't. Almost all of them have homework, essays, participation grades, and even attendance that play into the grades so go to class and do your homework.

9. Everyone is sexually active

When I was in high school, I was convinced that no one in college is a virgin and that everyone either hooks up all the time or is in a long-term relationship. The truth is that people do what they want with their own sexuality and no one is super invested in anyone else's sexual behaviors.

10. You'll stay close to all your high school friends

My friends from high school have all gone separate paths and even the closest high school friendships take a lot of work to maintain, especially if you go to school out of state. With everyone going their own way after graduation, it's okay to let some people go.

11. These are the best years of your life

For some people, college is their best experience. For others, it's not. Don't get caught up in what the college experience "should be" and instead let it be what it is. Some days you'll love it and other days it'll stress you out to the point of exhaustion. Don't let other people's experiences dictate yours for you.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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