To my best friend's future husband,

Well let me first start off by saying that whoever you are, you are one lucky guy to have landed such a beautiful, kind-hearted, selfless girl like my best friend, so congratulations! Snagging her was probably one of the best decisions you could have made because any guy would kill to have a girl like her. And I must already love you because otherwise she probably wouldn't be marrying you (she needs her best friend's approval.)

Knowing her, it couldn't have been easy to win her over because she has very high standards that not all men are able to meet, and that's what makes her so special. You obviously know that she never settles for anything less than what she deserves and since she is settling down with you, you must be one special guy. If I had to guess you must be very tall and handsome and probably dress extremely well. Also, you probably have a great sense of humor and your weirdness must be compatible with hers, otherwise I wouldn't be writing you this!

Now let me tell you just what you got yourself into. Marrying my best friend also means you're kinda stuck with me too. I mean literally you just gained two wives, good for you! She has always been someone that I knew I could always count on and now she will be that person for you too. Don't be surprised if you come home from work one night and catch us in the kitchen dancing to Back Street Boys and N'Sync. That's normal for us. Either smile and walk by or join in!

Also, just so you know we both will probably have at least 5 dogs and that still will not be enough. She will most likely beg you for another dog or just come home with one, so just let it happen, it will make her happy. And you should be prepared to be best friends with my hubby too, cause yeah that's gonna happen.

At least once a week we will have a girl's night where we will vent about our lives and she will probably talk to me about how you're being dumb (because we both know guys can be very clueless sometimes) but that's okay girls need to talk about that stuff. We will eat our weight in ice cream and maybe some buffalo chicken dip and watch re-runs of Grey's Anatomy (hopefully by then that show will finally come to an end.)

But most importantly, in marrying my best friend you gained another friend as well (me). No matter what I will always be there for the both of you, because I want nothing more than for her to be happy. You should know that you are one lucky guy to have someone like her in your life. Never take her for granted, and when times get rough don't give up on her, because we both know she will never give up on you. She deserves someone who is going to stand by her for good and for worse and I'm trusting you with that responsibility. Besides, if you ever hurt her, you'll have me to deal with.

Last but not least, I am so happy that she met you. Thank you for being the one she will be able to build a life with and for being worthy of her love. I always promised her she would find that special someone and even though she rolled her eyes every time I said it, I knew I was right. I mean really, who could not love her?

I can't wait to meet you some day!

Love,

Her Best Friend & Your Future Wifey #2