To My Role Model

To My Role Model

Thank you for making me the woman I am today

Hey Mama,

I'm sorry in advance for being sappy, and most likely causing you to cry while reading this, but this one is for you. As my sophomore year comes to an end, I've had time to reflect on my college experience and my life as a whole. All I can say is that I have no idea where I would be without you.

You are the light of my life, the one I can come to with any problem, and my hand to hold when I'm in need of comfort. I want you to know that there is no one in this world I aspire to be more like than you. Your selfless heart, extreme generosity, and kind soul are what make you the person you are, and I am so unbelievably thankful for you. I am not sure why the Lord chose you to be my mother, but I am so grateful he did.

From kindergarten days, you have been right behind me every step of the way. Musicals, soccer practices, horse shows, and school field trips would never have been as fun or gone as smoothly without you. I remember walking off stage at school or out of the show ring in Ocala always knowing that you would be there with the world's sweetest smile and biggest hug. You are forever my number one fan and I strive to be the best version of myself for you.

I've been able to grow up with a good sense of self-respect and love for myself thanks to you. You have taught me that it is okay to distance myself from people, hold tight to those who go above and beyond for me, and to be the best friend I can be. My work ethic and passion for life come from watching you be so involved with organizations while I was young. I admired your hard work and was able to experience first-hand how it paid off for you and those around you. You constantly push yourself to be better and grow as a person still to this day.

You have proven to me that there are things more important in this world than the materialistic society I have been exposed to. One of my favorite lessons has been to be kind to others and understand that so many people fight battles alone and behind closed doors. I tend to forget the struggles that people face and you're always there for a little reminder.

You have shown others patience in times that I might have become overwhelmed. You have placed other's worries upon your shoulders and carried them with such grace. You truly are the most gentle and loving person this world has ever known.

So, here's to you, Mom. You are the ultimate mother, best friend, and soulmate. And for all of my friends and family reading this, I know you can all agree that my superhuman of a mom deserves all of this praise and more. Thank you for providing for me and loving me throughout every up and down of life. I love you most.

Cover Image Credit: Justin Payne

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6 Important Must Knows For Dating Sassy And Sarcastic Girls

Brace yourselves boys, she's a tough one.

Dating a girl with a big personality can be tricky. They are some of the most amazing girls but to keep them, one needs to understand them. Here are six important things you must be aware of before you give your heart to a sassy and sarcastic girl.

1. Stubborn

She is going to be the most stubborn creature you will ever meet. I say "creature" because she might actually scare you with how much she refuses to back down until you have full proof she is wrong. And if you can’t prove her wrong, just suck up your pride and let her be right or she’ll never quit. But just remember that she’s simply passionate about whatever it is and you should be proud of her for that.

2. Bluntness

She is going to be blunt. So be prepared to hear the truth. She isn’t going to care how mad you get, if you’re being rude, she won’t be afraid to put you in your place. If your choice of clothing isn’t matching, she’ll tell you. Whatever it is, she isn’t going to keep the truth from you. Sometimes it’s subtle, sometimes she’s just a little too straightforward.

3. Sensitivity

Be careful sometimes with your choice of words. Though she is blunt, she is also sensitive. Her sarcastic personality is sometimes just a defense mechanism because she fears opening up. She worries a lot and continues to ponder the things you say. Remind her she is loved.

4. Friends

She is going to have a lot more guy friends than she will have girl friends. Why? Because guys tend to find more humor in her sarcasm and don’t take it so personal, whereas other girls take it as she’s being serious and just rude. However, don’t be jealous because trust me, you’re 100 percent hers and those guy friends are just that — friends.

5. Insults

She’s not going to flirt with you by giggling and blushing and calling you cute. She’s going to call you an idiot and smack you across the shoulder or back because to her, that’s easier than being all giddy and speechless over how much she likes you. And even when she’s calling you names, which really is in all fun and games, she doesn’t mean it seriously, she’s actually just saying “I love you” in her own special language.

6. Shorty

If she’s short in addition to being sassy and sarcastic, you’re in for a big treat with her. She is not only going to be full of fast wit, but she is going to have so much spunk in her you won’t know what to do. She will be so feisty that she won’t be afraid of anything or anyone and you yourself won’t even know how to handle her. That’s what makes her special.

It takes a certain type of person to be able to give their heart to someone who can so easily break it with their strong headed personality. But a sarcastic and sassy girl is going to be the one girl who is going to love you with all that she has. Treat her right, and she’ll treat you right.

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To The Friend I Rarely See Anymore

I wish you nothing but the best.


When we graduated high school, we thought it was the end for us. The distance would ruin us and we wouldn't be able to call ourselves friends. Thankfully, you were my rock for the first year of school. You were the one I turned to when the adjustment was hard or when I needed someone to talk to and just listen. We never lost our connection for a whole year. We proved that nothing could pull us apart no matter how far the distance, no matter the different schedules. We were still best friends.

Another summer came and we only got stronger. We went on countless beach trips, late night hangouts, and Starbucks runs. I didn't even think it was possible to be this much closer to you than we already were. If we weren't together, we would Snapchat or text to never stop the conversation.

Now summer ended, we didn't think twice about losing our connection this time. We had a bond stronger than anyone could fathom. We once again went our separate ways and kept our texting and Snapchat habits.

But something changed.

It must've been the comfort level of sophomore year. It must've been all the new friends we got. It must have been the boys who entered our lives. We don't speak anymore. I haven't seen you since winter break. I haven't texted you since New Year's Eve. Our connection, one that was once thought to be indestructible, came crumbling down with sophomore year. I am not going to lie, sophomore year was the best of my life, but I knew you were missing the whole time. It wasn't the same without you.

I'm not upset you chose to focus your time and life on your new boyfriend. I am happy for you. I am not upset you spend more time with your school friends. I am happy for you. I am not upset you don't text me anymore and killed our streak. I know you're living a happy life. And I am too.

We may have gone our separate ways like we never imagined, but I am happy you are finally happy. Don't forget for one second that I will always be here for you. I will still always answer your text. I will still always be your shoulder to cry on even when no one else is there for you. I wish you nothing but the best, and I hope you're doing ok.

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