Dear incoming Freshman,
Everyone tells you that college is the best four years of your life, and while I agree with that statement, a lot of people forget to tell you that it could also be hard at times. Figuring out how to balance school, work, and a social life can be difficult, but believe me it is possible. It is important to embrace the adventures and challenges that college throws at you and enjoy the ride.
Being that I am a college senior about to graduate, I have a few survival tips for you to get you through your first year.
1. Don't take an 8 A.M.
Total freshman move. You might think that because high school started at 7:40 you can do it but chances are you can't. If you don't take my advice, let me know how you feel two weeks in.
2. Get involved
When most people hear this they immediately think greek life. While I am totally pro greek life, if it's not your thing there are plenty of other ways to get involved on campus. Getting involved makes a really big school feel a lot smaller.
3. Things aren't always going to go as planned
This is an important one to remember because things change, people change, it's just the way of life. So if you fail a test you studied all night for or drink too much and regret it the next morning, don't worry you live and you learn and you're probably going to do it agin.
4. Have fun but know when you can't
Let's be real, this is one takes practice. You're probably going to have a test the morning after that huge party your crush invited you to, but it's important to decide which one is more important to you.
5. Live a little
Don't get me wrong studying is super important and the main reason you are there, but try not to let it take over your life. You'll never get back these next four years so don't be afraid to live a little.
6. Accept the fact that the "freshman 15" is real
Be healthy and all, but live a little. Order that late night Gumby's or go through the Taco Bell drive through without hesitation, whatever your drunk food of choice is, don't fight it.
7. Study abroad
One of my biggest regrets include not making more of an effort to study abroad. If you have the opportunity to do this, I strongly recommend. (P.S. the drinking age in Europe is only 18.)
8. Be yourself
As cliche as it sounds, it is important to never lose sight of who you truly are. Grow as a person and don't ever look back, but never try and change who you are for someone other than yourself.
9. Stay as long as you can
I might be biased with this one, but my advice to you is don't rush it. Embrace these next four years and if you feel like taking a victory lap, go for it. I bet fifth year freshman have even more survival tips than I do.
Enjoy these next four years because trust me they go fast. Next thing you know, you'll be a washed up senior giving survival tips to incoming freshman trying to be somewhat relevant. Good luck on these next four (or five) years.
Sincerely,
A jealous graduating Senior
