Dear Big,

I don’t even know where to start. You’ve only been my big for the past year and a half, but I honestly don’t remember what college was like without you.

Throughout our dating process, it became more and more clear to me that you would soon become a part of my life that could never be removed. You were the older sister I never had, and the guidance I desperately needed during my freshman year.

As soon as we officially became Big and Little, you officially became part of my family. Filling the mentor-void I had in my life, you began to lead me through our sorority, college, and life in general. As an only child, I couldn’t wait to get a Big once I rushed, and you have lived up to every expectation I had and more.

It’s hard to think I will be running our Pham without you next year, as it seems like just yesterday that you were scared to be the matriarch. Although I am scared to do college without you, I know you are leaving me with the wisdom and guidance to get me through my remaining two years. And, if I get lost along the way, I know you’re always a call away, even when you’re in the real world.

Thank you for the laughs, thank you for the snuggles, and thank you for the advice. Thank you for the memories, thank you for the guidance, and thank you for the life-lessons. Thank you for answering my FaceTime calls at all hours of the day. Thank you for letting me hang out in your apartment whenever I want.

Most importantly, thank you for fulfilling your role as my Big in the greatest ways possible.

Love always,

Your Little