Growing up, I was the only daughter--and the only daughter with three brothers. I have always gotten along with my mom and I'm very lucky to have her. One day I hope to have a daughter. Here's everything I want her to know:

Dear Future Daughter,

Find your passions and fill your life with those passions. Wear what you want to wear and put makeup on only when you feel like it. Your body is yours so pierce it and tattoo it--but please consider the rest of your life when you do these things. Take care of your body because it's your temple. Eat fruit, go to the gym and please, oh please--never harm your body by smoking or cutting yourself.

You are beautiful and nothing can take that away. If anyone ever tells you that you are not beautiful, they are jealous of you and not someone you need in your life. Your beauty is not only on the outside but also on the inside. Let the fire of your soul glows so bright, people can see it from the outside. Seek knowledge to fuel that fire. I'm sure at some point in your life someone will tell you that you have to act dumb for boys to notice you; it's not true. Always seek to learn more and never stop asking questions. You can do anything a man can do so don't ever let a man tell you otherwise.

Learn to stay your own person as you give your heart to others. Never ever let a boy convince you to do something you don't want to do with your body no matter how much you like him. If he really likes you, he wouldn't ever want you to feel uncomfortable. You're worth everything so don't you ever let anyone treat you like you aren't worth it; however, you are not better than anyone else. Be confident; not arrogant. Learning to love yourself will be the best, and most important, thing you ever do.

Family is important. I know we'll get on your nerves all the time. I'm going to love you beyond all words for the person you are. When you fall down I'll always help you get back up.