Growing up with an older brother can be at times a joy...or a nightmare. I got to experience both of those times. My brother and I never got along when I was younger, but as soon as we went to the same high school, we became good friends.
Living in a “hookup” culture where finding a guy who is worth investing time in is
challenging, and I just want to take this time to thank my brother for always
reminding me of my worth and what I deserve.
Having an older brother while being in college during this culture is a
true blessing. Us litter sisters often times live by the motto, "The only man a girl needs in her life is her dad big brother." Thank you for always
looking out for me.
I never tell you how much you actually mean to me. Of course, each family has their own story and dynamic, but ours is my favorite. Every little sister has a different experience with their older brothers, some feel protected right from the beginning or others aren’t as lucky as me and don’t even feel close to their brothers at all. Although we got a little bit of a late start, I am forever thankful for the friendship we have.
I remember when I got my heart broken for the first time. I think that's when I really knew I mattered to you. I remember acting as dramatic as always, and being so upset over this. You were so mad at this boy, and promised you wouldn’t let a boy hurt me again. And despite having no real control over this situation, you have been able to always help me up from these hurts and taught me to brush it off.
You were the tough, body-building, cool, older brother. I lived under your legacy at high school, and the constant OH, you’re his little sister. I always wanted to be able to be as witty and easy going as you, but some of us aren’t as blessed (please note the sarcasm).
When our parents separated, you were my shield and protector. You took on the role of dad, and made me feel comfortable with all the new changes going on. You taught me how to be brave, even when I didn’t feel brave. You never gave up on me when I felt unlovable, and always made sure I had my life together. You taught me how important studying was and always led by example. I am so proud of all the academic accomplishment you had at Virginia Tech and all the future ones you will accomplish at medical school.
When our family faced hardships, you were the person I turned to. You always give me tough love, and tell it how it is, even when I really just could use a hug. You encourage me to be a better version of myself, just by always believing in me. Even if you really don’t think I can do something you always give me the encouragement to try anyways.
Thank you for all the lessons you’ve taught me and even if you will never admit it, I have you right in the palm of my hand. Thank you for always protecting me, and also letting me fall but being there to pick me up. You are the best big brother, and I am so blessed to get the chance to be your little sister. Thank you for setting a strong example for me to follow, and for rarely letting me down. Getting to go to college together for a year was such a special thing, and I love that we both love being Hokies! I love you bubba.
Love,
Your Little Sister
