It's that time of year again: I'll go to the nearest drugstore to pick out a lame card that never really feels like the right one, and I'll take it home and think about what to write that will tell my mom how I feel about her that isn't the exact same thing I wrote last year. But it never feels quite right or genuine. Instead of mulling over that tacky, store bought card with a cat on it, I've decided to write my mom a letter to tell her just how I feel about her on her birthday. (I know it's not a new concept, just bear with me.)
Dear Mom,
You were my first teacher, first guidance counselor, first therapist and first best friend. You've been by my side for as long as I can remember; my achievements have always been your achievements. Growing up, I have been selfish, bratty, probably way too chatty at times, and an all around pain to live with sometimes, but you have taught me what it means to be unconditionally loved.
You have given me so many things: your attention, your patience, your soulful, not-so-poop-colored brown eyes, your extreme love for coffee, the list goes on and on. (I did teach you how Snapchat works, so I think we're even!)
I am the furthest thing from embarrassed to say that you are and always have been my very best friend and my first choice duet partner, shopping buddy, and literal twin (I mean, how many times can we hear that we look exactly alike from cashiers and waiters). You have truly taught me what it means to be a strong, independent woman who can take care of herself and do great things with a little help from her mom (yes, she still makes all my dentist appointments for me). You are warm, loving, generous, honest and beautiful on the inside and out, which is exactly what I hope to be when I'm a mother. Speaking of, you're going to be a grandmother! Congratulations!
Joking. Totally joking, don't kill me.
I am so exponentially lucky to have been given a mother like you to guide me through my first 20 years of life. We've had a great two decades together, and I'm sure the next two decades will be even greater. I love you so much, Mom. Have an amazing birthday, you deserve so much!
Your daughter and eternal best friend,
Kellie Rebecca
P.S. Is it totally wimpy to admit that whenever a character's mother is sick on "Grey's Anatomy" I get a little teary? Yeah probably.
