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A Letter To My Ex-Best Friend

Thank you for all the memories you gave me

Hanna Stegman

Sep 12, 2016

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Dear Ex-Best Friend,

Hey. How are you? I can't believe it has been years since we last talked.... All those years ago I would have never thought this would happen to us. So much has happened since we have last spoken, and it hurts knowing we are no longer friends.

What happened between us? It seemed like one day we were texting every second of the day, and the next there was just silence. You were the one I could rely on for anything. You were the one I would call 10 times a day just to say I missed you even though we just saw each other. You were the one I was looking forward to seeing every day. You were the one. You were my person. And then it all just stopped.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry no longer being your person. I'm sorry for not making all those memories like we planned. I'm sorry for not being your future bridesmaid. I'm sorry for not living next to each other and growing old together. I'm sorry for everything that ever happened between us. I'm sorry for the fighting, the tears, the anger, and most of all, for not having you in my life anymore.

Even though we are no longer friends, I want to thank you. Thank you for making me laugh until I could no longer breathe. Thank you for picking me up when I was down. Thank you for knowing exactly what to say when I was in one of my moods. Thank you for the countless nights where we would stay up late and just talk. Thank you for being you. Thank you for making me who I am today. But most of all, thank you for showing me how to be a true friend. Without you, I would have never known what to look for in a best friend. Without you, I probably would not have met my current best friend. I wouldn't have the relationship I have with her if you didn't show me what that was all about.

I miss you.... a lot. Sometimes I go through old photos of us on Facebook and I just laugh. I often wonder what was going through our heads when I look back at those crazy pictures. I often find myself on your Facebook or Instagram and smile. You seem so happy. I am happy that you are happy. Hopefully, your current best friend treats you right, because I only want the best people to be your friends.

I often get asked how you are these days and it saddens me to know that I really don't know how you are. I find myself wishing we could catch up, but I know nothing will ever be as it was before. Just know, that if you ever need anything or need someone to talk to, I am only a phone call away. I will always be here for you, just like we said all those years ago.

I love you more than words can describe,

Your Ex-Best Friend

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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