As my freshman year comes to a closing, I keep having the same conversation with my friends. A conversation about what we've learned about ourselves and the world from our first year at college.

Yes, there are many articles on what people have learned from their first year at college, but there's a reason. The reason is because its all true. Freshman year is not easy, being on your own for the first time. Having to make all new friends. Having to monitor school work, internships, food, money, doctors appointment/health, waking up on time, and much more.

More meaning.....

1. You're meeting yourself for the first time.

This may seem strange for a person just going into college, since you probobly are thinking you know who you are. But you most likely don't. College is a strange place that really teaches you what you really enjoy in life. Just keep reading and you'll understand.

2. Learning to be ok on your own.

I used to think I was the biggest extrovert to live on this earth. That I couldn't be happy unless I was around people. But soon after arriving at college, I realized quickly that this wasn't true. You are around people 24/7 in college, especially living with a roommate (in a dorm, that any "me" or alone time becomes your favorite time of the day. Heck, I just had the best spring break, taking an actual BREAK from people, just sitting at home with my dog, binge watching Grey's Anatomy.

3. Your parents are your actual best friends.

Now, I can't speak for everyone. But for those who I have spoken to have agreed that college has brought them and their parents closer, as they are the people they call about an issue rather than texting your friends about it. I am not ashamed to say I call my mom every day when I walk to class because it's a constant thing I can count on. Knowing that my mom wants what's best for me, makes her the best person to get advice from is a refreshing reminder.

4. Sometimes you don't need a friend group, but just that one best friend to get through it all.

Many people already know this, but some have to learn it later than others. Friend groups are great since you are given lots of friends all at once! But, you will learn that as long as you have that one friend you can confide in whenever and wherever is much more fulfilling than a bunch of acquaintances you call your friends.

So, yes, go and make lots of friends! But at the same time, try and find that one person who gets you better than others and stick to them!

5. And sometimes the friends you make, won't actually end up being those best friends that everyone talks about finding in college.

And that is alright! You have four years in college, I promise you won't leave friendless, you just might not have many sometime, and that's ok! You just haven't met them yet!

Think about it this way: You have only been at college for a few months. You were in high school for four years, just as long as college. Most likely, you were not friends with the same people freshman year as you were your senior year. Same thing happens in college. So keep your chin up and just keep making friends. You will find your people. They are looking for you too.

6. It's ok to gain the freshman 15. It's not the end of the world.

Gaining weight isn't fun for anyone, but don't be mad at yourself over it. It happens to more of us than you think. I know it's hard to pass up that cookie, because it's available now and won't be later. I know it's hard to pass up getting ice cream with friends because you're just getting to know them and don't want to miss out on any inside jokes. So don't. Join in on the fun, and don't let your weight drag you down into depression. Make good choices, but splurge when you want to, and just make the healthy decisions when you can!

Something I've started doing is working out with a friend. This way you have someone to hold you accountable for going to the gym every day, and you're not alone. Plus, blood, sweat, and tears definitely builds up a friendship.

7. You will get through it all.

I know this is what all parents say on the phone from hundreds to thousands of miles away, but it's true. You were smart enough to get into college. You were strong enough to say bye to your friends and family on move-in day. And you are smart and strong enough now to know you can get through all the rough times. You got this, just get through one day at a time.

And when those days seem hard or unbearable, just turn on your favorite show and get lost in it for an episode. That's the best advice I can give to any college student.