I have the amazing privilege of spending the majority of my summer studying abroad in Dublin, Ireland. I've been abroad before, but never in such an independent way. I didn't know anyone else in my program, but I was excited to make new friends and explore an unfamiliar country. After being here for almost two weeks, I could not be more happy with my decision.
To be completely honest, there have been quite a few surprises and cultural differences I've had to get used to. Here are some of the most important lessons I had to learn in my first week:
1. Don't be quick to stereotype
One of the reasons I love being abroad is that I'm studying with people who are so different from me. We all come from different universities, backgrounds, states, religions, and stages of life. I was intimidated by these differences when I met everyone, but I quickly realized that we all had a lot more in common than I thought, and we learn so much from each other.
2. When in doubt, try it out
When you're in a new city or country, there are always going to be new things to try, don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. You might surprise yourself.
3. Be adventerous
Put the guide book down, ask locals for advice, and go off the beaten path. My favorite days so far have all been unplanned adventures that only happened because we decided to get lost and see what happened.
4. Try to assimilate
While doing all of the must-see tourist things, don't get caught up in the visitor mindset. Even if you're only abroad for a few weeks, immerse yourself in the culture.
5. Stay healthy
When every day feels like a vacation, it's easy to adopt a vacation diet. While eating out every night is a great way to experience the new culture, it's also a really easy way to undo months of healthy eating and exercise. Go for a run and explore your new home, and on your way back hit the grocery store and buy some veggies.
6. Don't over do it
I was guilty of this one. We ate out almost every meal for the first few days and stayed out late. By day five everyone was exhausted and needed a day off. Remember that you have time, you don't have to finish your abroad bucket list in your first week.
7. Budget
This goes along with staying healthy and over doing it. Make good choices when you can. If you know you're going out to dinner one night, try to make your own breakfast and lunch. You also don't have to buy everyone yo know a cheesy souvenir. Try to make a budget and stick with it.
I'm sure the weeks ahead will teach me even more about life, culture, independence, and myself.
