When I was little, my parents were your typical strict parents; sit up straight, make sure you're quiet during church, etc. However, as I've gotten older my parents have taught me far more important things, and I think everyone needs to learn these...
Things my mother taught me:
1. Earrings and mascara.
My mom never leaves the house without earrings and mascara on, not because of vanity but because it gives her confidence. I now do the same thing; it is just a little something that goes a long way.
2. Telling it like it is.
There is a nice way to tell it like it is, but sometimes you just have to be honest. Not because honesty is the best policy, but because sometimes it is the only way to get through to people.
3. When a man yells, it is different than when a woman does, so raise your argument not your voice.
My mom works in politics, so she has people constantly angry with her because of something out of her hands. She has many people yell at her during meetings, but by choosing to not yell back she keeps her dignity and respect.
Things my dad taught me:
4. No boy is worth it.
No boy is worth losing sleep over, crying over, worrying if you're good enough. No boy is worth it unless he makes you feel like an equal.
5. You’re prettier than you think.
My dad tells me two things every time we talk: 1. you're prettier than you think you are (I think dads are required to say this), and 2...
6. You’re smarter than you think you are.
"You are book smart, you are quick, you are able to hold your own."
7. You are capable.
My dad reminds me whenever I am overwhelmed that I am capable of much more than I think I am. I am capable and I am able. "You do not simply survive, you thrive."
Both:
8. You are worthy.
Of respect, love, affection, and the same education as everyone else. You are worth it.
9. Thank you letters are important.
You can call my parents old school, but handwritten thank you letters are so simple and so important.
My parents have taught me everything I know. Mom and Dad, I love you guys.
