Time and time again I hear the words, "you're on your phone too much" or something of the like. Many of us have grown in an age where technology is the future and those without such a childhood believe this to be pointless and communication decimating; however, this is far from the case.
Like all things, the internet has it's fortes and weak points, but it's lessons in humanity are something I will never forget.
One of the first lessons I learned on the Internet was people love to assume and judge. Whether it's a tweet, post, blog or even picture those who see it will judge it. Although, not all assumptions are bad, often times the thoughts that flood our mind based on what we see are judgmental in some way or form.
Perhaps it's the picture of your classmate on Facebook or a tweet on Twitter. Whomever it is, they love to update every moment they find intriguing, leaving you with a backed-up home page and a lot of eye rolling. It's times like these you may wish they would stop posting so much. Most can agree it's annoying, but it's part of who they are.
Of course, judging and assuming are perhaps the two most lighthearted forms of internet bad blood. Online is a common gathering point for hatred and as humans we have a few choices. We can join in on the stripping of happiness, watch as it floats by, stop it entirely or share words of encouragement.
In situations of which the later are chosen, the Internet has taught me just how wonderful humanity can be. These people, while you must be weary of strangers, can offer you help and insight unattainable by those in your immediate surroundings. The internet opens up a word of people who have just the experience and advice you need.
As someone who has been on the giving and receiving end of these points, you learn so much about other cultures and yourself. People say offering a helping hand and making others happy leads to your own. As a kid, I believed the only way this could be done was volunteering and while this is a great source, something as simple as a "you are loved" or "you can do it" create an unforgettable experience of selflessness.
Lastly, the internet has taught me you're never too old or too late to follow your dreams. Throughout my many years of social media usage, I've seen people of all ages and their stories. Stories of how they decided to make the jump and choose the less traveled path. If none of the previous points have convinced you the Internet isn't all bad, this should.
The internet isn't just a source of news and entertainment; it's a place where stories can be told. People can be inspired, an exchange of views can take place, and people can aspire to learn and grow.
You can say a lot of things about the Internet and many have, but the Internet is here to stay and more than anything else it has taught me we all have a voice. It showed me the misuse of such a wonderful component in our lives and, more importantly, how simple the change is.
I have learned our voices can do wonders. If we speak together, we can find courage and greatness in humanity.
