What 'The Legend Of Korra' Taught Us About Love

What 'The Legend Of Korra' Taught Us About Love

They showed their viewers uncomfortably authentic aspects of love.

Revisiting Book two with my older sister and accompanying my roommate for her first viewing of the series, "The Legend of Korra" manages to remain relevant in my life, along with its predecessor, "Avatar: The Last Airbender." While I never shipped Mako and Korra together (nor them with anyone else -- sorry, Korrasami and Masami fans), seeing their relationship unravel managed to make me reflect on love and relationships, and continue to look on with amazement on how the show managed to, once again, evoke compelling insights about life.

Usually the themes of "LoK" picking at fans' brains were the complicated politics and philosophies of each book, such as the Red Lotus and their appeal to anarchism in Book Three. Relationships in television are too easily dismissed since they are an ordinary aspect of life, and often not an original addition to storylines. Because of that, viewers will turn away from the deeper meanings of any show's analysis of love. While much attention has been (understandably and deservedly) given to the canon pairing at the series finale, the romance between Korra and Mako shows something just as meaningful, especially in Book Two.

Because of the ultimate breakup between the two, the show manages to separate itself from most cartoons, including "A:TLA" where the main characters are constantly happy in their relationship, easily make up after a big fight (of which there only tends to be a single one), stay with their original partner, and ultimately marry them. Neither are they Ross and Rachel types ("Friends"), who constantly bicker and break up, but choose to be with each other in the end. Mako and Korra showed us that relationships are complicated, and most importantly, rarely end up the way we want them to.

A lot of us fans, including myself, did not want them together since they first kissed when he was still with Asami, and managed to keep it a secret for a long time. Mako's secrecy around Asami showcased that he was not great boyfriend material. He was also unreasonably mean to Korra when they first met, foreshadowing future tension in their romantic relationship. We watched as Korra and Mako struggled with understanding each other while they dated. Much confusion arose when he did not know whether she wanted him to listen or give advice, and her anger flared up when she accused him of taking sides regarding her arguments with other people. These seemingly small, yet repetitive, misunderstandings were the embodiment of a much bigger problem: their lack of compatibility.

Watching Mako struggle as he chose Korra over Asami (again) made it clear, if it wasn't already, that the relationship could not work. With Korra having her recent memories wiped clean, including of the breakup, we have sympathy for Mako wanting to rekindle the flame. He shouldn't have led Korra on, nor should he have betrayed Asami, but he wanted to salvage the good times and feelings they had. Despite the hard work they put into their relationship, it wasn't enough to make them happy together, and they had to come to terms with the fact that their relationship was something that wasn't meant to last.

This is part of what makes the show and its situations touching. We may not agree with characters' choices, or even like the characters themselves, but what they go though is an accurate portrayal of what we and the people around us have gone through with love. Love may be shared between two people, but the practicality and the ultimate satisfaction of the relationship will often outweigh the tender feelings and bursts of passion.

Korra and Mako, the original couple of the series, showed us these uncomfortably authentic aspects of love. They did not last and not every one of us rooted for them, but the realism reflected in their relationship, as with other aspects of the show, and that's what helped make "The Legend of Korra" a dynamic and unforgettable series.

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College As Told By Junie B. Jones

A tribute to the beloved author Barbara Parks.

The Junie B. Jones series was a big part of my childhood. They were the first chapter books I ever read. On car trips, my mother would entertain my sister and me by purchasing a new Junie B. Jones book and reading it to us. My favorite part about the books then, and still, are how funny they are. Junie B. takes things very literally, and her (mis)adventures are hilarious. A lot of children's authors tend to write for children and parents in their books to keep the attention of both parties. Barbara Park, the author of the Junie B. Jones series, did just that. This is why many things Junie B. said in Kindergarten could be applied to her experiences in college, as shown here.

When Junie B. introduces herself hundreds of times during orientation week:

“My name is Junie B. Jones. The B stands for Beatrice. Except I don't like Beatrice. I just like B and that's all." (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 1)

When she goes to her first college career fair:

"Yeah, only guess what? I never even heard of that dumb word careers before. And so I won't know what the heck we're talking about." (Junie B. Jones and her Big Fat Mouth, p. 2)

When she thinks people in class are gossiping about her:

“They whispered to each other for a real long time. Also, they kept looking at me. And they wouldn't even stop." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 66)

When someone asks her about the library:

“It's where the books are. And guess what? Books are my very favorite things in the whole world!" (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 27)

When she doesn't know what she's eating at the caf:

“I peeked inside the bread. I stared and stared for a real long time. 'Cause I didn't actually recognize the meat, that's why. Finally, I ate it anyway. It was tasty...whatever it was." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 66)

When she gets bored during class:

“I drew a sausage patty on my arm. Only that wasn't even an assignment." (Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren, p. 18)

When she considers dropping out:

“Maybe someday I will just be the Boss of Cookies instead!" (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 76)

When her friends invite her to the lake for Labor Day:

“GOOD NEWS! I CAN COME TO THE LAKE WITH YOU, I BELIEVE!" (Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy, p. 17)

When her professor never enters grades on time:

“I rolled my eyes way up to the sky." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 38)

When her friends won't stop poking her on Facebook:

“Do not poke me one more time, and I mean it." (Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy, p. 7)

When she finds out she got a bad test grade:

“Then my eyes got a little bit wet. I wasn't crying, though." (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 17)

When she isn't allowed to have a pet on campus but really wants one:


When she has to walk across campus in the dark:

“There's no such thing as monsters. There's no such thing as monsters." (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed, p. 12)

When her boyfriend breaks her heart:

“I am a bachelorette. A bachelorette is when your boyfriend named Ricardo dumps you at recess. Only I wasn't actually expecting that terrible trouble." (Junie B. Jones Is (almost) a Flower Girl, p. 1)

When she paints her first canvas:

"And painting is the funnest thing I love!" (Junie B. Jones and her Big Fat Mouth, p. 61)

When her sorority takes stacked pictures:

“The biggie kids stand in the back. And the shortie kids stand in the front. I am a shortie kid. Only that is nothing to be ashamed of." (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed, p. 7)

When she's had enough of the caf's food:

“Want to bake a lemon pie? A lemon pie would be fun, don't you think?" (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed p. 34)

When she forgets about an exam:

“Speechless is when your mouth can't speech." (Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren, p. 54)

When she finds out she has enough credits to graduate:

“A DIPLOMA! A DIPLOMA! I WILL LOVE A DIPLOMA!" (Junie B. Jones is a Graduation Girl p. 6)

When she gets home from college:

"IT'S ME! IT'S JUNIE B. JONES! I'M HOME FROM MY SCHOOL!" (Junie B. Jones and some Sneaky Peaky Spying p. 20)

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15 Thing Only Early 2000's Kids Will Understand

"Get connected for free, with education connection"


This is it early 2000's babies, a compilation finally made for you. This list is loaded with things that will make you swoon with nostalgia.

1. Not being accepted by the late 90's kids.


Contrary to what one may think, late 90's and early 00's kids had the same childhood, but whenever a 00's kid says they remember something on an "only 90's kids will understand" post they are ridiculed.

2. Fortune tellers.


Every day in elementary school you would whip one of these bad boys out of your desk, and proceed to tell all of your classmates what lifestyle they were going to live and who they were going to marry.



You could never read this book past 8 o'clock at night out of fear that your beloved pet rabbit would come after you.

4. Silly bands.


You vividly remember begging your parents to buy you $10 worth of cheap rubber bands that vaguely resembles the shape of an everyday object.

5. Parachutes.


The joy and excitement that washed over you whenever you saw the gym teacher pull out the huge rainbow parachute. The adrenaline that pumped through your veins whenever your gym teacher tells you the pull the chute under you and sit to make a huge "fort".

6. Putty Erasers


You always bought one whenever there was a school store.

7. iPod shuffle.


The smallest, least technological iPpd apple has made, made you the coolest kid at the bus stop.

8. "Education Connection"

You knew EVERY wood to the "Education Connection" commercials. Every. Single.Word.

9. " The Naked Brothers Band"


The "Naked Brothers Band" had a short run on Nickelodeon and wrote some absolute bangers including, "Crazy Car' and "I Don't Wanna Go To School"

10. Dance Dance Revolution


This one video game caused so many sibling, friend, and parent rivalries. This is also where you learned all of your super sick dance moves.

11. Tamagotchi


Going to school with fear of your Tamagotchi dying while you were away was your biggest worry.

12. Gym Scooters


You, or somebody you know most likely broke or jammed their finger on one of these bad boys, but it was worth it.

13. Scholastic book fairs


Begging your parents for money to buy a new book, and then actually spending it on pens, pencils, erasers, and posters.



Who knew that putting yogurt in a plastic tube made it taste so much better?

15. Slap Bracelets


Your school probably banned these for being "too dangerous".

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