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The struggle of not being "BIG" on birthdays

Dani Kinton
Dec 12, 2016
University of Dayton
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Ah, alas, that one day a year where all the attention is focused on you, a day in which everyone celebrates you and all of your accomplishments in life thus far. While some people like to celebrate the fact that it’s their birth-month, birth-week, and go all out for their birthday, I tend to be one who wakes up and goes about my day as if nothing is different. If you’re like me, you tend to not enjoy the attention and want to go about your usual routine with maybe a small get-together with family and a few friends. Here’s why I don’t truly “celebrate” my birthday. And by celebrate I mean go all out, take a night off of work, spend time with those I love, etc.

1. I don't like being the center of attention


Getting overwhelmed with “Happy Birthday!” and hugs is not my thing. I would much rather sit at home with a warm cup of coffee, a movie or book, and just spend time by myself or with my close friends and family. Don’t get me wrong, I do enjoy hearing all of my friends and others tell me happy birthday and show that they care for me, because it is such a blessing to see that. Yet, I hate breaking my routine.

2. I'm the worst person to accept gifts

When people give me gifts, I feel this odd inclination to want to give them a better gift. Let me tell you, I’m the worst when it comes to gifts, especially when it comes to what I want as a gift.

3. I never truly know what to do


I consider myself a pretty selfless person, and I absolutely hate when it’s time to celebrate me, or to have others do things for me “just because.” When we all truly know that the reason isn’t “just because.” And that horribly awkward moment when everyone sings Happy Birthday, and I just sit there staring at the cake as the candles melt. I never truly know what I should do with myself.

While all of these things are events that I dread on my birthday, I am still beyond thankful for the outpour of love that I receive on this day. It truly is a great reminder of the people that support and love you, even when they aren’t always involved in your day-to-day life.

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