1. Bully? What about best friends who can kid around with each other?
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Yes, I admit Jim had some mean pranks up his sleeve. But do you honestly think that Jim and Dwight weren't friends? Remember those fun times they had together! Click this link for a funny compilation of Jim's pranks against Dwight: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xnk4seEHmgw
2. Don't hate the hair! It's kind of iconic!
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It's not like you've never had a horrible haircut right? We've all been there and we all know it's not fun.
3. Karen? Nah, #TeamPam all the way.
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Yeah, Jim left the office in Scranton to go to Philly for a little bit. But that's because he and Pam were trying to figure out what they were and who they would be as a couple. He came back and asked Pam out because he missed her! Karen was just wasted time.
4. He bought a house without telling Pam! It was meant to be a surprise anyway.
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It's not like Jim went out and bought any house. It was the house he grew up in and that he loved and respected. There's some food for thought.
5. Not every proposal is a "perfect and glamorous one."
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I understand that it's 2018 and we're living in a huge social media age of technology. But not every proposal is a perfect and glamorous one. It seems like more and more people are on their phones and are more worried about taking the perfect picture rather than enjoying the moment that they're living in. But as far as the gas station proposal goes, it's Jim and Pam's story, not yours. Link to watch the video of the proposal scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N56tjXt6JoY
6. The entire wedding.
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When Jim cut his tie in half because Pam's veil was ripped. This is so sweet of Jim to do because it's his day just as much as it is Pam's and he cut his tie to make Pam feel a little better. Jim gave an epic love story speech too! Here's the video link to his speech! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NJ56MlGrpfA
7. He takes a job with Athlead and doesn't tell Pam.
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This is the only point I sort of agree with you on. I agree that this is most of season nine. Do you really know EVERYTHING about your partner in your relationship? Like completely 100% EVERYTHING? Down to every last little detail? For Jim and Pam's relationship, it broke our hearts just a little.
8. Jim ghosts Darrell for two months
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Have you ever ghosted one of your own friends because you didn't want to talk to them? Yes, Jim's behavior for this situation had consequences but for the most part of the show, he always does the right thing.
9. The ballet recital
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Pam got there early and had a seat front and center to see their daughter's ballet recital while Jim was in Philly trying to pursue his sports marketing start-up. It's not like he didn't want to go, he had work. Pam got a phone call during the recital and didn't get the video when Jim found out of course he was a little mad. In a way, it was almost like they had both missed their daughter's moment at her recital. It was honestly a little sad.
Now if you really wanna get into the Jim and Pam love vibes, watch this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTBJXCJxg30