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It's Not Commitment Issues, It's Waiting For The Right One

Here’s to all the people that tell me I am afraid of commitment.

Willow Moulton
Oct 12, 2016
Franklin Pierce University
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It's Not Commitment Issues, It's Waiting For The Right One

Here’s to all the people that tell me I am afraid of commitment. It’s not that I’m not listening to you, it’s that I say screw you. We live in a world where people don’t handle hearts carefully anymore...

I’m not scared of commitment because everyone wants to find love. And if they say they don’t they are lying to you. I’m scared of rushing into a relationship with the wrong person, of wasting my time on someone who isn’t going to love me like I’m going to love them. I’m the type of person that loves someone with my whole heart, I give everything I have. And that’s why I’m not about to open up to just any person. I see people run into relationships like it’s nothing and that’s great but I’m not that girl anymore.

I’ve been the girl that runs into a relationship without really considering it and that’s why I have people telling me I have commitment issues. I’ve been hurt, I’ve been brought to my lowest point by another person because I trusted them a little too much too fast. And I’m not going to be that girl again. And I know there’s other people that can relate.

I’ve heard that I push people away too easily… I agree. But it’s just because I know what I want, and I know how I should be treated. I believe everyone deserves someone, and I believe that everyone will find someone eventually. Like my mom says ‘there’s a toilet seat for every ass.’ And I’ve also been told that I need to stop being so ridiculous because I’m not perfect. I completely agree with that.. I’m not even a little bit perfect and I know that. But I’m not going to be with someone who can’t handle my imperfections and I realize that sometimes it takes awhile to find that person.

So, no I don’t consider myself to have commitment issues, I can commit to someone, but my goal is for it to be the right person this time.

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