First of all, I am so sorry if you opened this because you have a connection with cheating. No one should experience this in life.

Dear Beautiful "Cheatee,"

You are worth more, so much more, than what has happened to you. I know you gave your all to this man, and you are hurt. More than that, your heart aches. Because you can not stop thinking to yourself, "Why?" Why did this happen to someone like me? I thought I was good enough."

Stop right there.

You are good enough! You are good enough for any man in this world; you just have to find the one God made just for you. The one who is going to protect you, respect you, adore you, show you off, kiss you in public and claim he is yours. You need a man who can prove he is a real man. A man of God, at that.

Remember all the nights you'd text him with no replies? Or replies after an hour or so saying he was "sleeping" or "not near his phone?" Yeah, remembering those nights makes you wonder how you were so stupid to not know. However, do not let your past experiences change how you act for future ones. Do not be stubborn; do not not have trust in any man now because of just one bad experience. Not every man is the same and not every woman is the same, either. God made someone for everyone.

Thank your ex. Thank him for making you more knowledgable about relationships.Thank him for the memories, even the bad ones. Because he obviously made you happy at one point.

So have faith, stay thankful for that cheater, because he just made you move forward to find the person God made specifically for you.