On social media these days it seems that a lot of people fantasize about the relationship life. It almost seems that being single is deemed as something seen as negative. However, I'm completely the opposite of this. I am single, independent, and confident as hell about it. Sure, boys are great and I surround myself with a lot of guy friends, but it doesn't mean I'm looking to date any of them or anyone at all. I don't get sad on Valentine's Day and when it comes to date parties there's no pressure to have a "real date." This doesn't mean that I look down on others in relationships, I just know it's not even near my main focus right now and I don't want it to be. Everything I do I do it for myself wholeheartedly. I don't need dates because I treat myself. When I make plans, I don't have to think about my significant other being okay with it. I put my friends first. This is something I pride myself in and I wouldn't them change for anyone.

So for anyone that's single like me and stressing over it: just because you're alone doesn't mean you're ~alone~. Surround yourself with friends and make these years yours. You deserve it. The worst thing you could do to yourself is follow in someone else's shadow or live a life that isn't 100% yours or for you. Remember that you're only as good as the company you keep and you control that. It's okay to be single and it's especially okay to be happy about it. Timing is different for everyone so don't stress about when things happen for you. So relax, make time for the important things and treat yo self.