College is a huge change. Before you get there, you have a million scenarios of things that could happen swarming your mind. It is hard to know exactly what to expect. Sure, we may hear the generic, go to class, advice but some people -- like me -- like to know a little bit more of what to expect. My first semester at Mississippi State University was anything but what I expected. Throughout the year, I gathered a few tips and tricks on what to really expect in college and how to survive the semester.
1. Absences matter. So, really, go to class. If there is one piece of advice that has been embedded in my mind, it is this. Although not easy to adhere to, it is a must. Even missing just one class can earn you either a zero for the work done that day, or ill-prepare you for the next class. It is easy to lose track of what is going on. Don't be another statistic. Going to class will help your grades.
2. Don’t eat your money. Not literally, of course, but I’ve found that the majority of the money I spend goes towards food. When eating on campus gets old, try to utilize eating at your sorority/fraternity house, or if your friend’s have an apartment, try cooking dinner there. Cutting out those meals will really save you some money.
3. Due tomorrow doesn’t actually mean due tomorrow. Procrastination is no stranger to most college students. In fact, most people I know would rather wait until the night before a paper is due to actually write it. I have found when you have all your homework done by the time the weekend comes around, your week comes to a much less rushed close. This gives you plenty of time to start your weekend.
4. The fear of missing out can be real. But so can sleep deprivation. There is always something going on every night at college. Whether it is a social event, a band, or just a couple of friends going out, hardly is there a time when everyone stays in. But don’t feel like you always have to be out. There will always be another date party or another band party. If you need to sleep or study, do not let the fear of missing out get the best of you.
5. Immerse yourself. Get involved. Meet new people. Strengthen friendships. Grow closer to your affiliation. College is about new experiences and new people. Don’t be afraid of either. Join a club, a committee, anything. But do not let these opportunities slip past you. You will never regret going above and beyond.
When it comes to college, no two experiences are the same. These are the years our parents reminisce about; we don’t get these back. So make the best of them, have fun, but don’t forget what truly does matters.
