As March 14 approaches, there are various ways to prepare for the night Ben picks his future wife (unfortunately it’s not you, no matter how many BuzzFeed quizzes tell you otherwise).

First, watch every trailer to prepare yourself for the ultimate heartbreak, but also to see that ring a little closer.

Then you have to hit up the grocery store for all the essentials including the following items:

Tissues for the inevitable. While we like to pretend that we don’t care whether he picks Jojo or Lauren, let’s all agree we’ll be blubbering messes no matter who gets the final rose. After Ben dropped the L-bomb twice last episode, we're all just confused and need answers. Ben, who do you really love?

We also need Ice cream and chocolate because let’s be honest we’re not getting on "The Bachelor" any time soon so why not enjoy it. Thank god for that New England winter because this body is not ready for Jamaica.

Drinks and your girls are the dynamic duo for comfort and a judgment-free zone. They will pass you tissue after tissue and refill your glass without a second glance.

The next step is checking every spoiler alert page for "The Bachelor" in an attempt to find out who Ben picks because the suspense is just too much. Who can wait until March 14th, never mind the 2 hours to find out who wins Ben's heart, my heart can't even function properly in light of this dilemma.

After the cyber stalking ends, re-watch all your favorite bachelor moments. From crying Ben to shirtless Ben, your love just continues to grow. Not to mention Ben with Amanda's kids *sheds tears,* he's just too adorable.

While you're at it, sign up for "The Bachelor" casting call. It's a free chance at love and you're paid?! Chris Harrison, I'm coming for you!

The Women Tell All special. Watch it. Live it. Love it. After all, we want Olivia to be put in her place because frankly we've seen her tonsils almost as much as her lies.

But we have to give her credit for embracing the cankles. Thank you, Olivia, you showed that living with cankles is not easy. Us big-ankle girls have to stick together (until ankle liposuction comes out).

Through all of the dramatic moments (Jubilee's abrupt leave, Olivia's panic attack, Caila's surprise turned wrong, and how could we forget swimming with the pigs) this season proved to be unforgettable and one thing I can say for sure is that everyone is #teamBen. So, grab your softest blanket, tissues, snacks, and snuggle in to find out who gets the final rose.