There are a lot of us in relationships where we see ourselves as good boyfriends and girlfriends.

No, every day is not perfect but the memories that you and your partner make can be. We all have our own opinions and thoughts about what is right and wrong in a relationship as there are two different personalities coming together.

But, there are some things that if a girlfriend or boyfriend can accomplish in a relationship then yes, I would say that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend.

First of all, you have to be a good listener. It is so important to not shut out or shut down your partner's feelings. If they are having a bad day and want to talk, be there for them.

You want your partner to feel respected and appreciated. Doing something as simple as listening to them will show how much you care.

Next, make time for them. Nothing is better than being able to spend time with that special person in your life. We all know life gets busy sometimes and it may seem like the effort isn't always there. Spending at least an hour out of your day is what is going to make all of the difference.

Go grab breakfast or lunch or even spend time studying together. A little time spent together is better than no time at all.

Be a kind person and do kind things. Little and big gestures can really make a difference in a relationship. It's the things that are true and genuine that are given to and from a person that can make someone's heart so happy. Being kind will also make a relationship happy.

When there is nothing to argue about it makes for better moments in a relationship. Fighting causes unnecessary stress and disagreements. If you and your partner show that you care then that will make both of you feel better and have a happier relationship.

Lastly, forgive one another. You may be the most stubborn person but if you can learn to overcome your stubbornness, then it is going to make a big difference to your relationship.

It can be really hard when you think you're right and they're wrong but sometimes it needs to just be let go. Nevertheless, stand guard. If you and your partner get in a fight where is there ever physical and verbal abuse, then this is not a safe relationship. Do what you can to leave and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it.

Hopefully, these suggestions and ideas will help you become or continue to be a good partner in your relationship. And hopefully, you can start to have or continue to have a happy and safe relationship.