Guys, would you like to know how to be the overall definition of the "boyfriend goals?" Think outside of the box for once, geez. Us girls, we really aren't that complex to figure out. Just read our minds. We know you've always wanted to be a psych major or you just have that inner power like all guys should. If you don't read minds (which we really hope you don't -- for your own sake), then I'm your girl. Here's the 411 on how to be perfect, without losing your man card.
1. The "Talking" Phase
Cut that crap out. Are you still in high school? Seriously, either date the girl you're with or cut the strings. Pretty simple. Nobody wants to waste their time to not be official.
2. First Date Convos
What does water do in a river? How does blood move through your veins? FLOW! Conversations are meant to flow on first dates. Topics should happen naturally without having those awkward "what do we talk about next" moments.
3. My Friends vs. Your Friends
A little give a little take. Spend time with my friends and I'll spend time with yours. Don't complain every time you get pushed out of your comfort zone.
4. All Eyes on Her
Give your girl some lovin'. Whether it be to post an Instagram pic, write a love note, hold her hand, or compliment her around your friends. We like that sh*t and we most definitely like to be shown off.
5. Master Chef
Don't be the stereotypical alpha male. Don't be afraid to throw on an apron and cook for your girl -- we don't always belong in the kitchen.
6. Take a Lesson From Bob The Builder
We all don't need a "Magic Mike" in our life, it's nice to have other things. Be the first phone call when your girlfriend gets a flat tire, fixes a broken door, or when she needs you to stop everything you're doing to kill a spider. We hate spiders. Or maybe a load of wash. (Although we would love some "Magic Mike" in our life/)
7. May the Force Be with You
Your girlfriend wants to be protected and that doesn't just mean by your size. Protect what's yours, even if it means getting into a bar fight. We want to feel safe even in the darkest alleys.
8. Take the Risk for the Fall
Competition is always fun, especially in relationships. Set up a challenge to do together. Plan a backpacking trip to test the limits of your relationship. Nothing beats shooing flies away, peeing in the woods, or taking a quick skinny dip in the lake in front of each other. See who whimps out first.
Take these tips to life and you shall receive the award of being "boyfriend goals."
