All my life I've heard getting a dog is a huge responsibility, dogs are expensive, or you don't have time for a dog. None of these things could fight the feelings of overflowing joy I felt every time I'd see a dog walk by, and especially when I'd play with one. All I wanted was a puppy to love and raise, despite what my daddy thought was best.

I finally broke down and got a puppy anyway. A Goldendoodle named Charlie, and it turns out everyone was right. It's a lot of work, money, and time. However, I wouldn't change a thing. I just wanted to raise my own puppy, but in reality he's raising me.

My puppy has taught me time management. You can't follow a schedule? A dog will change that: breakfast 8 a.m., potty break 8:30 a.m., outside playtime 9-9:30 a.m. etc.

My puppy has taught me how to save money. Coupons on puppy chow and treats? Cut them out! We love sales and perks cards! I'm less likely to just go buy a pair of shoes I don't need when I'm thinking about Charlie. (A lot of the money I save does buy him toys, but that's not the point.)

My puppy has taught me to not forget to play. When a puppy brings you a ball you throw it. He always seems to know when I've had a stressful day or just need to have a good laugh.

My puppy has taught me that exercise is necessary and plenty of sleep also. So. Much. Cardio. But, my running partner is pretty cute and an awesome motivator. What is even cuter than him running? Him taking naps.

My puppy has taught me to put someone else before myself. Having someone be dependent on you is a lot of work. Shout out to all the parents out there! All my decisions include him. I can't just pick up and go somewhere. I have to make plans.

My puppy has taught me unconditional love. Yes I get frustrated when he has an accident after being good for a week or chews up one of my shoe strings, but I still love him. Those big brown eyes giving me that I'm sorry look get me every time. He is mine and no matter what he does he's still gonna have my heart!

So yea, a dog is a lot of work. They'll take your time, your money, and your heart. However, I couldn't imagine life without my little man now. I strive every day to raise Charlie, but truly he is raising me.