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How it Feels When I don't Hear From You

For the record it doesn't feel good

Hannah Sheboy

Oct 17, 2016

Le Moyne College

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One of the many problems with being human is the need for other humans. This isn't always an issue; people in your life can create meaningful bonds and relationships, be the cause of a lot of joy, and help you to be an overall more happy and altruistic person. However, when we open ourselves up to people, we begin to get attached. As a result, when we don't hear from friends, family, significant others, or pets in a while, a rush of conflicting emotions run through our heads. Here is what goes on in my head when I haven't heard back from you in a while:

1. They must be really busy

Really, really, really busy. Saving the world or something.

2. Why are they too busy for me?

They must have a better, funnier, smarter, replacement that they are spending all their mental energy on.

3. They must hate me

Cause why else would 2 hours pass without a word?

4. Why do they hate me?

They don't actually hate me... I hope.

5. I must be horrible

I will just be over here holding my life together.

6. I am not horrible, I am awesome

If you can't see the good in me you can just step aside.

7. They must be horrible

I am too fabulous to be ignored.

8. They aren't horrible, they are amazing

Maybe they are too fabulous to love me. (Nah, that can't be it)

9. Self-loathing

This phase only lasts about a minute mom (don't worry).

10. Why self-loathing? They should be begging to hear from me.

Because as we discussed before, I am fabulous.

11. If they text me, I will ignore them

I will have willpower this time.

12. They are probably not ignoring me

Why would the people I love ignore me?

13. Repeat steps 1-12

Because if at first you don't succeed...

14. Yay! They texted me back

Yes! I am fabulous and they see it.

15. Why did I text them back so fast?

Couldn't I have waited just a minute? Make them miss me a little

16. Gosh they are so great

I know why I keep them around.

17. I am surrounded by the best people

Because lets be serious, the people that matter will never ghost on you for long. And I was probably only overreacting in the first place.

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How it Feels When I don't Hear From You

For the record it doesn't feel good

1. They must be really busy

2. Why are they too busy for me?

3. They must hate me

4. Why do they hate me?

5. I must be horrible

6. I am not horrible, I am awesome

7. They must be horrible

8. They aren't horrible, they are amazing

9. Self-loathing

10. Why self-loathing? They should be begging to hear from me.

11. If they text me, I will ignore them

12. They are probably not ignoring me

13. Repeat steps 1-12

14. Yay! They texted me back

15. Why did I text them back so fast?

16. Gosh they are so great

17. I am surrounded by the best people

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And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

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It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

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Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

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I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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