Thanksgiving has come and gone and now families look forward to the end of December to be reunited once again for the holidays. On Thanksgiving this year I sat in a circle with all my cousins who are now 17 and older. We looked at each other and then at the "kid's table" next to us realizing that we used to be the kid's table. It was a crazy moment of nostalgia looking at how far we've come, and how grown up we all are becoming each and every year. There are many differences but also advantages to holidays in your 20's.
1. Everyone grows up with you
If you're from a big family like I am on my mom's side, there are plenty of family members to hang out with on the holidays. The conversations grow from "what was your favorite toy this year?" to "how did your semester go?" The conversations mature but remain endless.
2. People care about your plans
One of the most common yet scariest things to talk about with family on the holidays is your plans for the future. Whether it be the future semester or future job, the members of your family genuinely care how you are liking school and which path you are on your way down during this journey. It's comforting to know that there are people rooting for you outside of your immediate family.
3. It's easier to wait for presents
I remember when I was little and presents were the very last part of our Christmas routine with my dad's family. We would go to church, eat dinner, and save presents for last. I remember the anxiousness and excitement eating at me until my mother would finally say that it was time to open the gifts. Now that I'm older I look forward to seeing my family and coming home for the holidays rather than looking forward to the gifts. Don't get me wrong, presents are a major plus, but not having the luxury of getting to see your family every day outweighs the presents.
4. FOOD YOU DON'T HAVE TO COOK YOURSELF
Do I need to explain?
5. Home is where the heart is
It's true that you don't realize how much you miss something until it's gone. Being away from family and coming back from the holidays is a huge reminder of just how important family is, and how important it is to cherish the time with your loved ones while you have it.
The holidays are one of the happiest times full of family and cheer. Enjoy this upcoming season with your loved ones, and don't forget to remember what is truly important about this time of year.
