10 Things I Miss About High School That College Doesn't Give Me

10 Things I Miss About High School That College Doesn't Give Me

Some things you miss more than others.


High school has been over for me for over two years. I haven't been inside the school in several months, and right now they're doing a huge renovation to the school. I imagine it will be unrecognizable when they're done. Which breaks my heart a little. But the funny thing about this is that I was one of the students at high school that hated high school. I only liked the dances, the teachers, the friends, and being apart of the theater group.

My high school experience was just short of miserable, but there were definitely some redeeming qualities, such as the 10 listed below.

1. Personal relationships with teachers

My high school was small, and a handful of teachers were the coaches of sports teams and administers of extracurriculars. And even having the same teachers for years in a row, you begin to develop a relationship with each of them. Sure, in college, you can get close to your professors, but the odds of having them for more than one class are not as high as it was in high school. So, I was able to have these great relationships with my favorite teachers. Now that I've since graduated, I am friends with a ton of my teachers on Facebook, but it's not the same as it was in high school.

2. Dances

There aren't many chances of getting dressed up in beautiful dresses and nice button downs and ties in college. There are formals with sororities and fraternities, but those are invite-only. There are clubs and bars, but people show more skin and dress not nearly as fancy as dances in high school. Having two dances a year in high school was something I always looked forward to, and not having that to anticipate is just something I miss.

3. Assemblies

There really aren't that many opportunities to have assemblies in college. There might be meetings for each individual college on campus, but not as a whole. Now, in high school, we only liked assemblies because they got us out of class. But now that they're gone, I miss the sense of inclusivity and sitting amongst the people you would recognize in the hallways.

4. School competitions

Getting a day filled with games and a little friendly competition was the best. Each grade would compete in a series of events and each grade was assigned a different color. There were themes and decorations and corresponding T-shirts. It was one of the best memories I have of high school. Thus far, I have not encountered anything like this in college.

5. Inner-grade drama

I loved hearing drama in high school. It was very entertaining to talk about and listen to. So-and-so is pregnant, this couple broke up, these two started dating, he's gay, she's transferring schools, etc. In college, you have a couple of groups of friends, and you only hear their drama. You don't know the little details, just a vague sense of things. I thought it was an unconventional way of uniting a school.

6. The feeling of everyone knowing everyone

Since I went to a small school, we were all very familiar with the people that went to the school. We kind of knew everyone. It made the school feel like a home. We were all familiar with the lives of our fellow peers, and it was pretty cool. At a school with 20,000 students, there's no way that this is possible. But for smaller private schools, this is more doable. But how cool would it be if you knew everyone on your campus of 20,000? Pretty damn cool. Just not likely.

7. Seeing your best friends every day

This one is a big one for me. I used to have so many friends in so many groups. I would hang out with these people at different times just because each group was a little different. I now have two best friends, and I wouldn't want anything different. We do everything together, and even if we don't see each other for four months at a time, when we get together it's as if we never left. We can easily pick up where we left off and pretend like nothing happened. That is the best feeling in a friendship. I just wish we were all closer in distance during the school year.

8. Easier chores

In high school, dinner is typically made by your parents. So, for washing dishes, you rinse them and throw them in the dishwasher or hand wash them. In college, you are on your own: making your own dinner, washing the dishes, running the dishwasher. You need to provide for yourself. You need to buy your own groceries, do your own laundry, clean the bathrooms, etc. It's not hard, just something you need to get used to.

9. Seeing your pet every day

I miss my cat all the time when I'm away for school. I think during breaks and summer, I take seeing my cat for granted. I just expect him to be there, but when I'm away at school, I miss him more than I should. And I like to think that he misses me too, but he probably doesn't even realize I'm gone.

10. Attending doctors' visits solo

My first trip to the ER was my first semester of college. I was with my roommate and that was it. I didn't have my mom with me to stay with me or talk me through everything. I was completely on my own. It was scary, but it was good practice for the future when I'm a full-fledged adult and going to the doctor on my own.

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50 Things to Do When You're Bored and Completely Alone


For people like me, spring break is a time where you come home and have absolutely nothing to do. You're parents work all day and you're either sibling-less or your siblings have already moved out. Most of your friends are on the semester system, so your breaks don't line up. You're bored and completely alone.

Although while being alone sounds boring, sometimes it's nice to just hang out with yourself. There is a plethora of unique and creative things you can do. Netflix marathon? That's overdone. Doing something productive or worthwhile? You do enough of that in school anyway. Whatever the reason is for you being alone, I have assembled a list of unique things to do to cure your boredom.

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  1. Have a solo dance party.
  2. Teach yourself how to do an Australian accent (or any accent for that matter).
  3. Learn how to play harmonica (or any instrument for that matter).
  4. Buy an at home workout DVD.
  5. Bake a cake (and eat the whole thing for yourself).
  6. Take a rollaway chair and ride it down the driveway.
  7. Paint a self-portrait.
  8. Plant some flowers in your backyard.
  9. Become a master at air-guitar.
  10. Perform a concert (just for yourself).
  11. Write a novel.
  12. Become an expert on quantum mechanics.
  13. Give yourself a new hairdo.
  14. Knit a sweater (if you don't know how, learn).
  15. Make a bunch of origami paper cranes and decorate your house with them.
  16. Make homemade popsicles.
  17. Reorganize your entire closet.
  18. Put together a funky new outfit.
  19. Make a short film.
  20. Try to hold a handstand for as long as possible.
  21. Memorize the lyrics to all of your favorite songs.
  22. Create a website.
  23. Go on Club Penguin and troll a bunch of children.
  24. Become your favorite fictional character.
  25. Become your favorite animal.
  26. Practice your autograph for when you become famous.
  27. Create a magical potion.
  28. Learn a few spells.
  29. Learn how to become a Jedi.
  30. Put the TV on mute and overdub it with your own voice.
  31. Make paper hats with old newspapers.
  32. Become a master at jump roping tricks.
  33. Create music playlists based on random things, like colors.
  34. Find a chunk of wood and carve something out of it.
  35. Find something that doesn't have a Wikipedia page and create one for it.
  36. Create a full course meal based on whatever's in your kitchen.
  37. Teach your pet a new trick.
  38. Take a bunch of artsy photographs.
  39. Make a scrapbook.
  40. Learn a bunch of new words and incorporate them into your speech.
  41. Try to draw the most perfect circle without using a compass.
  42. Make your own board game.
  43. Memorize some poetry well enough so you can recite it.
  44. Build a fleet of sailboats and float them in your bathtub/pool.
  45. Write a song.
  46. Practice picking locks.
  47. Make a drum kit out of random household items and play it.
  48. Draw a tattoo on yourself.
  49. Give yourself a new piercing.
  50. Figure out the meaning of life.
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High School Seniors Should Be Excited For College, Not Scared

Even though it seems stressful and it is a big new place, it will be some of the best memories you will have for life.


Going into the summer after my high school graduation, all I could think about was college, and how I was going to prepare to go to a new school and move away from home. Just know, it is not as stressful as you prepare yourself for it to be. You don't need to worry about not having any friends or not knowing how to get to all the different buildings because you have to remember everyone else on campus has been in the exact same position you are in, and there are tons of people on campus to help you.

One of the things I was most worried about was classes and how to know which classes to take. My advice is to go to counseling and plan out your classes before you register. Planning out classes will drastically help you stay on track and the counselors will help you make a balanced schedule that you can actually handle.

Another piece of advice would be to not bring as much stuff for your dorm as you think you will need. By all means, bring the essential things that you will need, but remember a dorm room is very small and you share it with another person. You won't have a ton of space for extra stuff and you want to have space to move around and actually live in your dorm.

Finally, if you are concerned about meeting people and making friends, just try and be as outgoing and open as possible. Everyone else in the dorms is just as nervous as you are too meet people, it really helps to try to branch out. Joining clubs or greek life also helps you meet people around campus with common interests as you.

College is not something to be scared of. Even though it seems stressful and it is a big new place, it will be some of the best memories you will have for life.


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