I am always taken aback when I hear "'Harry Potter' is just for kids." Have you seen a television show aimed at young children? Read a child's bedtime story? J.K Rowling's narrative of "the boy who lived" is far more sophisticated and profound than what is categorized as "Youth Fiction." When first released in the United Kingdom in 1997 the boy wizard's story was originally marketed as a "children's book." Though great for kids to read, they only make up a fraction of the demographic Harry has cast his spell on. The life lessons and situations in the series by Rowling have permeated my life in the most wonderful way.
Friendship
Harry, Ron, and Hermoine have a bond so incredible that it seems fictional; OK, maybe because it is fictional, but many people, myself included, often dream of obtaining a relationship as close as Harry, Ron, and Hermione. Being able to grow up with these special characters was a surreal experience for me, as I often experienced similar relationship situations with my friends. Supporting one another and the unconditional love the trio has in the story is how I model my own friendships.
Parental Relationships
So much of Harry's adventure is filled with his longing to know his parents, his wish they were still around. Harry's unfortunate circumstance has made me a lot more thankful for my parents and their love for me. We all can get irritated by our family time and again, but sometimes that aggravation is their way of loving you.
Respect
There are many figures of power and intelligence at Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. Professor Albus Dumbledore (Requiem) was a brilliant wizard and even somewhat of a father figure to Harry. His respect and reverence to Dumbledore taught me how to treat my elders and that even brilliant people don't have all the answers.
Love Conquers All
I am hoping you have read or seen the last "Harry Potter." If not, spoiler alert. Voldemort was obsessed with power and being the best dark wizard in the world, but lacked the one thing Harry was overflowing with: love. Evil will never win if love is its competitor. Voldemort was vanquished because Harry was surrounded with love since he was born. The love of his friends, family, and teachers helped protect Harry from evil.
Whenever I'm feeling sad or alone I always turn to "Harry Potter," whether it's the books, the audiobooks, or even the movies. The land of magic, castles, and spells is far deeper than any "children's book" and has taught me things I apply to my everyday life.