Why It’s Hard To Be Thankful For Black Friday

Why It’s Hard To Be Thankful For Black Friday

At This Point, They Should Start Calling It Black Thursday

I received an email the other day with the subject “Wednesday Is The New Black Friday,” and it got me thinking. Now don’t get me wrong, I love shopping just as much as the next girl. I could spend the majority of my day sifting through racks of clothing and searching for those amazing steals. Chances are that by the end of a trip to the mall with my friends, I will walk out bearing various shopping bags on both arms. While I’ve done my fair share of shopping in life, some of which occurred the day after Thanksgiving, for some reason, I can’t bring myself to support what Black Friday has become.

As a national holiday and tradition, Thanksgiving is a day set aside to spend time with family and friends, enjoy a festive meal, and reflect on the many things that we are grateful for. But after we count our blessings, some Americans transform into full-out hunting mode. These people are alert, focused, and ready to pounce on every Black Friday deal they set their sights on (and anyone who gets in their way).

With each passing year, however, the stores that participate in this day advertise as opening earlier and earlier. Sure, 6 a.m. openings were pretty early for the mainstream population, but 8 p.m. the night before is really pushing it; it’s reached the point where employees cannot spend Thanksgiving with their loved ones. On a day when they should be relaxing and enjoying the holiday with family, they instead are forced to open up their stores and provide service to eager, and sometimes barbaric, Black Friday consumers.

Recently, with some of the shopping day creeping into the actual day of Thanksgiving, Americans have been more focused than ever on Black Friday. Thanksgiving has essentially taken a back seat. These days, topics of conversation at the dinner table include more about saving “$250 on 49” 4K Ultra HD TV” and less about giving thanks or enjoying time with family and friends. I know that it might be incredible to purchase big ticket items for less, but before you get up and walk out on your next Thanksgiving meal to head out to the nearest Best Buy or Walmart, stop and ask yourself if it is really more important than spending a few extra hours with that cousin you only see once a year, or an aunt that lives on the other side of the country, or the grandparent that could possibly be gone before you know it.

If we could just end Black Friday now, that would give us all something else to be thankful for.

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I Blame My Dad For My High Expectations

Dad, it's all your fault.

I always tell my dad that no matter who I date, he's always my number one guy. Sometimes I say it as more of a routine thing. However, the meaning behind it is all too real. For as long as I can remember my dad has been my one true love, and it's going to be hard to find someone who can top him.

My dad loves me when I am difficult. He knows how to keep the perfect distance on the days when I'm in a mood, how to hold me on the days that are tough, and how to stand by me on the days that are good.

He listens to me rant for hours over people, my days at school, or the episode of 'Grey's Anatomy' I watched that night and never once loses interest.

He picks on me about my hair, outfit, shoes, and everything else after spending hours to get ready only to end by telling me, “You look good." And I know he means it.

He holds the door for me, carries my bags for me, and always buys my food. He goes out of his way to make me smile when he sees that I'm upset. He calls me randomly during the day to see how I'm doing and how my day is going and drops everything to answer the phone when I call.

When it comes to other people, my dad has a heart of gold. He will do anything for anyone, even his worst enemy. He will smile at strangers and compliment people he barely knows. He will strike up a conversation with anyone, even if it means going way out of his way, and he will always put himself last.

My dad also knows when to give tough love. He knows how to make me respect him without having to ask for it or enforce it. He knows how to make me want to be a better person just to make him proud. He has molded me into who I am today without ever pushing me too hard. He knew the exact times I needed to be reminded who I was.

Dad, you have my respect, trust, but most of all my heart. You have impacted my life most of all, and for that, I can never repay you. Without you, I wouldn't know what I to look for when I finally begin to search for who I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it might take some time to find someone who measures up to you.

To my future husband, I'm sorry. You have some huge shoes to fill, and most of all, I hope you can cook.

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