Be Happy For Others And Their Achievements

Be Happy For Others And Their Achievements

Life is not all about constant competition.

Living in today’s society, it can be extremely hard for an individual to feel as if they are enough. Whether or not you receive enough recognition for your accomplishments, whether or not your good deeds are commendable, and the list goes on. Our world has molded this unforeseen culture of motivating individuals to be constantly “on top.”

This theory of being the most accomplished student in my class, is most definitely commendable, but does that define who I am? Absolutely not.

What happened to others being genuinely happy for people in their successful endeavors?

What happened to congratulate people on their job promotion, or praising a friend for stepping out of their comfort zone?

Having the ability to post on social media about your latest achievement, is both a blessing and a curse. An individual may post a picture of their recent award, however on the other side of the screen, another individual can often time be found reading the post, looking at your picture thinking “She doesn’t deserve that award,” or “I know how he got that, he must’ve known someone.”

The intentions of these sometimes boastful comments may just be singing the praises of themselves for a change.

However, the alternative negative thoughts about individuals have stemmed from a series of jealousy, hatred, and plain and simple mean people – all because everyone is so wrapped up in the thought of being “on top.” It is simply disgusting to think about the amount of negativity towards other individuals that have been produced over the past several years.

So what she won that award?

So what he got that job promotion you may have been wanting?

It is SO important in this life to realize that not everyone is meant to be the same person.

What one person may be good at, would be another individual’s worst nightmare and THAT IS OKAY. You are the captain of your own ship. If you want that award, go out and win it. If you want that job promotion, go out and earn it.

People should stop shaming others for their achievements and simply be happy for them! It’s not hard to take a step back and think about how that other person must’ve felt at the moment.

Maybe they were on top of the world, who knows?

No one has the right to be jealous or downright mean to others over their personal accomplishments. Let others be, and you will continue down the path that YOU choose to follow.

Cover Image Credit: Lauren Fowler

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40 Small Things That Make College Students Happy

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1. When class is canceled.

2. When the coffee shop you stop at five minutes before your 8 a.m. has a short line.

3. Coffee, coffee, coffee.

4. Open note tests.

5. Or even better, take home tests.

6. The unofficial assigned seating process that that takes place after the first week or so of classes.

7. Thursday nights. (because in college, Thursday qualifies as the weekend.)

8. Sales.

9. Or once again, even better, free things.

10. Specifically free food.

11. Dogs.

12. Dogs on campus.

13. Tailgates and Saturday afternoon football games.

14. Finding an already completed Quizlet for your exam.

15. Having an extra 30 minutes for a nap, and if you're lucky, an hour.

16. Netflix.

17. When your roommate takes out the trash.

18. Weekends after test weeks.

19. The rare blessing of a curve on an exam.

20. Getting out of class early.

21. How in college, it is socially expectable to wear a t-shirt everyday.

22. Being able to walk from class to class or eat in the dining hall without having to see anyone you know. (and thank goodness too because you probably don't look too good.)

23. Crossing things off of your to-do list.

24. Your best-friends that you make in college.

25. A full tank of gas.

26. Seeing a new face everyday.

27. Crawling back into bed after your 8 or 9 a.m. (or after any class that ends with a.m.)

28. Care packages.

29. No cover charges.

30. When adults tell you that it is okay that you have no idea what you want to do with your life yet. (regardless of what parents or your advisor may say.)

31. Pizza.

32. Finding out you weren't the only one who did poorly on the exam.

33. Deciding not to buy the textbook, and never needing it.

34. Finding the perfect gif to express how you're feeling. (Michael Scott just get it.)

35. Weekends at home because...

36. Pets.

37. Mom's home cooked pie and Dad's steak dinners,

38. Spring Break.

39. Road trips.

40. When it finally starts to cool down outside so you can show up to class dry instead of dripping in sweat.

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Sorry not sorry, but guys(and friends) are not worth holding yourself back for. They don't like a decision you made, drop them. They are holding you back from what you want to do with your life, drop them. Seriously, girls, we need to stop letting others dictate our lives! I am sick and tired of seeing girls crying over how their boyfriend, or friends, doesn't agree with them doing something. Get the heck over it and drop him. If they don't support you, they obviously aren't worth your time.

"Your time is precious. Don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize that you are, too."

I'm about to pull something out of my mom's book, but it is so relevant! Guys will come and go. Friends will come and go. If you have an opportunity to better yourself, you might as well take that chance! Think five years in the future, would you be a better person because of it? Does it make you happy? If you weren't with that person or friend, would this even be a problem? If you think it would make you a better person, if you would be happy with your decision, and if this wouldn't even be a problem if you weren't with them, do it! Make yourself happy, girl! You cannot let others determine what you can or can't do.

You need to surround yourself with people who make you want to be a better person. You need to surround yourself with people who make you so happy. Do not, and I cannot stress this enough, let others determine your self-worth, your happiness, and your decisions. You have a brain and a heart that are perfectly fine at making decisions! Make yourself happy.

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