I'm no stranger to problems or adversity in my life. There have been times where I couldn't see past the bad things I've gone through with my family, as well as times where we could only see the good in everything. I've lived for so long shifting to both extremes on a spectrum that everything feels like I'm waiting for a blessing or already living in one.

However, throughout any smooth or rough patches, the most important thing to remember is your family. Your family, generally speaking, are the ones that protect and nurture you. Whether you're poor, sick, or just not doing so well, your family should be there to hold your head up high.

I never grew up "rich" or "well off," but my parents made every effort they could to keep me and my brother happy. There were periods of time when all we could afford to eat was rice and beans. Public food pantries were our best friend, and the endless bills were our worst frenemy. Despite not having the things a lot of people saw as essential, I never truly thought of myself as "poor" growing up. Instead, I grew up rich in love. Of course, I wanted expensive things, what young girl wouldn't? The fact of the matter is, even if I didn't get the hot new toy or the latest iPhone, it never felt like the end of the world. Conversely, I knew that my parents loved me more than anything else, even if they sometimes had a weird way of showing it.

Whenever things started to lighten up financially or anything like that, my parents made sure we were covered before they did anything else. If one of the kids needed new clothes, my parents would forego one of the things they needed. I learned the idea of sacrifice from my parents; they had given up so much of themselves to raise children that would go on to do great things. It made me realize how important the family unit really is. Even if we were doing well (up to a point), my parents recognized what duty they had to a family in order to keep it afloat and together.

I'll be going off to college soon, but the lessons, morals, and habits I've picked up from my family will never fade. I truly believe that I am a stronger person, both mentally and emotionally, thanks to my parents, family, and all that we've gone through together.