Growing Pains | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Arts Entertainment

Growing Pains

Who really has it worse?

102
family of lions

Recently, it has come to my attention that I simply can't do the same things that I used to do, even at the tender age of 20. When you're in high school, the mere thought of getting old was something of a joke. Never did I think that after-school soccer and track practices would sound like an absolute nightmare nowadays. I don't really know what happened, but now whenever I go to workout or do anything physical, the struggle becomes increasingly apparent.

After a recent visit to my grandparent's home, I noticed that they too could not do certain normal functions that they were once accustomed to. For example, my grandmother asked me to help her change a few dead light bulbs, which of course I happily obliged. My grandmother explained to me how, being in her eighties, there are just certain things that she can't do anymore.

Then it struck me: if I think about the best shape I could possibly be in right now, it wouldn't even compare to the form I was in during high school. For the past semester, I have been going to the gym at least 4-5 times a week and I still am nowhere near what I was just a short 2 years ago.

Yet, on the car ride home I drew comparisons to my own perceived bodily degradation.

I think the main difference between "getting older" struggles when you are in your twenties versus the eighties is the subtlety of it. I remember a time when I would actually look forward to running seven miles at track practice after school. Now, getting to the gym takes a whole series of mental preparations and inspiration from the imminent Chipotle that I'll probably reward myself with afterward.

However, in comparison, those same mental preparations that I need to get myself to the gym are applied to the most simple tasks such as changing a light bulb or even just getting up and walking around when you're in your eighties. I look at myself in the mirror now and say, "wow, if it takes me this much effort to go to the gym now, imagine what it'll be like in 10 years!" That's a frightening thought to say the least.

Sometimes I think I'm just lazy for complaining about my bodily issues and aches but I can't hold back the notion that these pains didn't exist a short time ago. I mean I actually look at myself at times and ask if this is really the reality of getting older when I climb two flights of stairs and feel like I got sucker punched in the gut by Mike Tyson. It really is astonishing.

Then, when I consider what it must be like to be in the eighties, I come to the conclusion that all these hindrances that I am starting to feel now are going to become exponentially more annoying. Don't get me wrong, if you ask anyone that knows me well, they'll tell you I'm a big sit-down guy. But when I am actually confined to a chair I don't know how I'll manage.

I guess I'll just take all the sitting I do now as practice for when I'm old. Practice makes perfect and I always strive to be the best at whatever I do. By the time I'm 85, they'll be calling me the LeBron James of sitting in a recliner all day. Come to think of it, I actually might like being old.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

546015
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

430647
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments