How Greek Life Has Changed My Life At Delaware

How Greek Life Has Changed My Life At Delaware

​The actions of the few should not speak for the many.

Sure, we all hear the news and see how more and more often Greek Life has such a major stigma around it. We only ever hear about the bad, we rarely hear about the good.

When I first started the recruitment process in February of this year, I had absolutely no idea what to expect. I didn’t know anything about any of our sororities on campus and I went into this process completely oblivious to anything that had been said by anyone about Delaware’s Greek Life.

I think that going in with an open mind like that truly helped me to find my home. Meeting so many girls throughout the recruitment process was eye opening; we are all so similar yet so different at the same time.

Now that I’ve joined a sorority, every sorority sister has one thing in common no matter who they are; we’re all sisters. This is a huge community on our campus and all of us support each other through both social and philanthropic events which is such an amazing thing for all of us to come together no matter which sorority we’re from.

We’ve all seen movies and television shows that depict sororities as this awful concept. There’s such a stigma around it that most girls come into college not even knowing if they want to rush based on what they’ve heard throughout their lives. When I got to Delaware, I really didn’t think that I was going to rush. I didn’t think that I would fit in with any of the sororities because according to movies and television shows that I had seen growing up, I wasn’t the “typical sorority girl”.

Let me clear something up for everyone, there is no “typical sorority girl”. Sure, we all have things in common, we’re all 18-23 year old girls. But you cannot simply group all of us into one personality type, we’re so much more than that.

Throughout middle school and high school, I played field hockey and that was what I did. When I got to college and field hockey wasn’t a part of my life anymore I felt lost. Field hockey was where all of my friends were growing up and I got to Delaware and I just didn’t have that team anymore.

So, second semester rolled around and I decided to go for it and rush. I have to say that will always be one of the best decisions of my entire life. From the minute I stepped into the first room on the first day of recruitment, I felt so comfortable and at home immediately. Little did I know, that sorority was where I would end up just two weeks later.

Alpha Epsilon Phi has given me so much in such a short amount of time. I have so many beautiful sisters, and being an only child this is all so new to me. I’ve never had so many people to lean on. I have a Big, a G-Big, and a GG-Big, who I could not be more in love with. If you know us, you know that my Big and I are absolutely inseparable when we’re together. I have so many new friends that I don’t know that I would have met if I wasn’t a sister of Alpha Epsilon Phi. We have an incredible sisterhood, and we have amazing philanthropic efforts as well.

This year, UDance here at Delaware raised over 2 million dollars for the Andrew McDonough B+ Foundation and I am so proud to say that Alpha Epsilon Phi was the top fundraiser once again. The B+ Foundation consistently provides support to families of children with cancer and this organization is absolutely amazing. In addition to UDance, we have events for our two philanthropies, the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric Aids Foundation and Sharsheret. The events we put on bring our community here at Delaware together in support of two amazing causes.

I think that I’d be lost at Delaware if I didn’t have Alpha Epsilon Phi. I don’t know that I would be as happy here if I didn’t have my sorority and all of my sisters. I am so glad that I decided to rush and I am so thankful that I found my home in AEPhi. I found a Big sister who is more than I ever expected and I know that she will be there for everything in my life.

I found friends who mean the world to me and that I would not have met without my sorority. I think it’s time we end the stigma around Greek Life. We cannot let the actions of the few speak for everyone, and we should be supporting sorority sisters rather than creating movies and television shows that allow for a stigma of the “typical sorority girl”.

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22 New Things That I Want To Try Now That I'm 22

A bucket list for my 22nd year.


"I don't know about you but I'm feelin' 22," I have waited 6 long years to sing that and actually be 22! Now 22 doesn't seem like a big deal to people because you can't do anything that you couldn't do before and you're still super young. But I'm determined to make my 22nd year a year filled with new adventures and new experiences. So here's to 22.

1. Go sky diving.

What's crazier than jumping out of a plane? (Although I'll probably try indoor skydiving first.)

2. Go cliff jumping/diving.

I must be the only Rhode Islander who hasn't gone to Jamestown and jumped off a cliff.

3. Ride in a hor air balloon.

Up, up and away.

4. Try out skiing.

Cash me in the next Olympics, how bout dat.

5. Try out snow boarding.

Shawn White, I'm coming for you.

6. Go bungee jumping.

Because at least this time I'll be attached to something.

7. Go to Portugal.

I mean I'm Portuguese so I have to go at some point, right?

8. Go to Cape Verde.

Once again, I'm Cape Verdean so I have to go.

9. Vist one of the seven wonders of the world.

I mean hey, Egypt's on, my bucket list.

10. Try out surfing.

It's only natural that somebody from the Ocean State knows how to surf.

11. Learn a new langauge.

Because my little bit of Portuguese, Spanish and Latin isn't cutting it anymore.

12. Travel to a state that I've never been to before.

Fun fact: I've only been to 17 of the 50 states.

13. Go paddle boarding.

Pretty boring but I've never done it.

14. Go scuba diving.

I'm from the Ocean State so I guess I should see the ocean up close and personal.

15. Learn how to line dance.

There's actually a barn in my state that does line dancing, so this one will definitely get crossed off.

16. Go kayaking.

All this water around me and I haven't done a lot of the water activites.

17. Stay the night in a haunted hotel room.

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18. Get my palms read.

Because who doesn't want to know their future.

19. Go to a medium.

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20. Take a helicopter ride.

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21. Sleep under the stars.

Because sleeping in a tent is more like glamping than camping

22. Just to try new things in my everyday life.

Whether it's trying a new restaurant, getting something different at my usual restaurants, changing my usual style, going on the scary rides at amusement parks, and bringing things I used to do back into my life now.

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15 Thoughts I have About Ariana Grande And Pete Davidson Getting ENGAGED After, like, 3 weeks

When you know, you know I guess...


I don't know about you, but this whole Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson relationship timeline has me SHOOK.

This is coming from someone who attended a Christian university for three years. Quick engagements were the norm, but even this entire relationship caught me off guard.

Here are 15, yes 15, thoughts that went through my head about Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson's engagement after only three weeks:

1. Didn't Mac Miller and Ariana Grande JUST break up?

Mac Miller and Ariana Grande literally JUST broke up and she is already engaged? I don't know about you, but I'd be slashing some tires if my ex got engaged that quickly after our break up.

2. And didn't Pete Davidson and Cazzie David just break up?

I'm just saying maybe, just MAYBE Ariana and Pete had something going before their break ups took place... but THAT'S none of my business.

3. Cazzie is handling this like a champ.

Cazzie has every right to be petty, but she has apparently moved on. You go girl! (We all know what she's thinking though).

4. So who is dressing up in Harry Potter attire with me?

Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson dressed up in Harry Potter robes and so did Ashley Ioncetti and Jared Haibon. Now they're both engaged. Coincidence? I think not. Zac Efron if you're reading this please meet me at Harry Potter World. Robes on me.

5. Okay but that ring...

I would say yes after three weeks if someone proposed with that ring, too.

6. It takes me three weeks to figure out if I even like a guy back.

Honestly, I am way too indecisive to be able to relate to their relationship in any way.

7. How do people rebound so quickly?

I still can't message a guy on bumble or go on a date without feeling sad about my ex, and it has been three MONTHS... shout out to Ariana and Pete for being able to move on so quickly after ending two year relationships.

8. Oh she already wrote a song about him?

Ariana moves quickly. She is not only engaged in less than three weeks of dating a guy, but she also has written a song about him that is probably going to be amazing.

9. Matching tattoos... how'd that go last time Pete?

As if an engagement wasn't permanent enough... Pete already had to cover up a tattoo of his ex's face. Here's to hoping he won't have to cover these tattoos!

10. When in doubt... buy a mansion!

I think they're doing things backwards. BTW the mansion is $16 million dollars. A million dollars for everyday they've been together!

11. So... is she pregnant orrr?

I am just waiting for the paparazzi to release a baby bump picture.

12. I can't even get a text back...

Pete and Ariana are falling in love faster than I can cook easy Mac n cheese and I am over here waiting for a text back. It's fine. I'm fine. Everything's fine.

13. Who tf came up with Petriana?

Petriana is Pete and Ariana's couple name. I don't know WHO came up with it, but it reminds me of a Petri dish and those are gross.

14. At this point, I wouldn't even be surprised if they eloped next week.

You heard it here first people.

15. When you know you know I guess...

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