To my graduated Sister,
I don’t say it nearly enough, but I am so proud of you. You’ve finally graduated college, and in doing so, have shown me the strength, passion, and perseverance that makes an incredible person. We’ve always had our differences, but I see you and respect you for who you are. As a drama major, I can only imagine the bravery it took to follow your passion, despite possible family, society, and outside condescension. But here you are, showing everyone what true happiness and gratification looks like from following your dreams instead of expectations.
Because I had you to look up to throughout my life, I have become a better person. I have learned from you the work ethic and determination that will get things done. I have learned from you the path to loving yourself, your health, and your talents. While I can surely say I am not fully there yet, from you I know that I see how and why I can improve. I know the past years have had as many tribulations as they have had celebrations, and your strength in overcoming the bad has inspired me to always push forward. You are resilient, and always rise stronger than you fall.
I know these upcoming weeks seem intimidating since your future path is unpaved at the movement. Being younger than you, unfortunately, doesn’t give me the experience and wisdom I feel would really help you, but then again, that’s what mom is here for, right? What I can say is that I know that you will be happy. This is true because you have so many people that love you and care about you being the best possible you. I know that your hard work will be recognized and that you will succeed at whatever it is you set your mind to.
But that being said, let the path be messy. We’re opposites in this sense- you always need a plan, while I rarely do. So as you’re finding your way during these years, take a page out of my book and stray a bit from your life plan. Your life doesn’t have to all happen in the next year, so take the chance to do things not part of that plan. Life isn’t supposed to go as planned, and anyone’s that does has a pretty boring life. If everything were to work out exactly as you wanted, you wouldn’t grow or discover what makes your life so truly unique. And trust me, you’re unique and I know that you’re going to achieve so many great things.
Another piece of advice I have for you is to not let the people that tear you down keep you down. There are going to be people who don't want you to succeed and will make it seem like you shouldn’t. They’re wrong. You are deserving and talented and have worked so hard and overcome so much to get where you are. You’ve been through a lot and each of those moments has shaped you and grown you into a better person. You deserve to be respected for your work, your intellect, and your perseverance, so don’t let anyone sway you otherwise.
Don’t forget your family. We all love you so much, and as you’re preparing to set off and away to start your new life, remember that for those staying in the nest (so to speak) seeing you leave is that much more bittersweet. We may drive you crazy, and it may seem sometimes like we don’t understand, but believe me when I say we are all so proud, impressed, and inspired by who you have become and what you have achieved. You’ve led the way for all us siblings with your bravery and determination, and for that, we will forever be grateful.
Congratulations,
Your loving younger sister
“Be truthful, gentle, and fearless.” - Ghandi
