Is it just me, or is Christmas way more stressful than it needs to be? Perhaps it's because I'm a perfectionist. But after nineteen years of Christmases, I can safely say how to find the perfect gift:

First, think of fun memories with the person you're trying to buy a gift for. Do you have any inside jokes with them? Maybe you bonded over a favorite piece of music, or tv show. What is their favorite animal? Their favorite food? If you want your gift to stand out, try to personalize it. That way, your gift is more meaningful; it shows that you value the little things that make them who they are.

After you've thought of a special aspect about the person you're buying a gift for, consider your budget. That part is important, too. Do you want to spend $10? $20? $50? You can find the "perfect" gift with any budget. For example, if your friend is a cat person, you could buy them a cat sweater, or an actual cat (though I do not suggest this).

Those two gifts are very different, but they both fulfill your friend's cat-related needs. Essentially, the perfect gift can be budget friendly as well. And if cash is tight, there are ways of giving the perfect gift without spending any money at all!

Think of a special talent you have. Do you draw? Dance? Sing? Bake? You can create a gift using your own unique abilities. You could even just arrange a day to spend time with them. Anything that comes from the heart is a perfect gift.

Remember: Christmas isn't about giving presents for the sake of giving presents. It's about family, friends, and love. As long as you keep the person who you're giving the gift to in your thoughts, then your gift will be special, and from the heart. That's why it's perfect.