For the girls that make it their sole objective to involve themselves in the relationships of others, I can’t relate, and never will. I’ve spent years watching girls, even friends of mine, making it a point to chase the guys that were already in relationships. To put it simply, it disgusts me.

The majority of college aged girls have either been cheated on, or betrayed in some fashion by a guy at some point in their dating career. With that being said, and knowing how that betrayal feels.. it seems like more often than not, the same girls who have experienced the cheating, lying, and betrayal, tend to set their targets for guys that are in relationships.

For THE girl who wants center stage in my relationship, I ask you to think about what you’re doing. Ask yourself why you’re doing this; not only why you’re doing this to me, but to yourself. Your energy would be better focused elsewhere. I promise. Ask yourself how you would feel should another girl do this to you.

You would feel hurt, frustrated, angry, and maybe even confused. Ask yourself what you will gain from attempting to destroy another woman’s happiness. At the end of the day, you don’t have to take my happiness away in order to find your own.

I try to understand the motive behind your destructive and hateful attitude towards me every single day. Odds are, I never have truly understood and probably never will. I pray you attempt to understand the uncomfortable situation you have put me in. Ultimately, I pray that you realize your actions won’t benefit anybody involved.

Take the energy you funnel on me and my relationship, and use it for good. Go find your own happiness, girl.