I'm the girl that's seen as unfaithful or a "whore" because I don't hang out with other females very often. Not only does this affect my social life, it also takes a toll on my relationship. So, to clear up any and all misconceptions, here are the reasons I choose to hang out with males more often than females.
First of all, there is hardly any drama. If there ever is any, it is laughed off like it never mattered in the first place. I've learned that males actually talk to each other when there is a problem, unlike most females who will talk about it behind each others' backs. So, I never have to worry that my friends might be talking about me, because they would actually say it to my face.
Second, we can goof around and pick on each other without being worried that we're hurting each others' feelings. I don't know about you, but I cannot stand it when I am just joking with someone and they take it offensively. If I mess with the guys like that, they're gonna have a comeback, not cry in the bathroom later because I was "being mean."
Third of all, I just get along way better with guys. I've never been looked at any differently than the rest of them because of social status or what I wear. I could play Xbox in my pajamas while drinking a beer, and my guys wouldn't judge me at all. After all, I pretty much am just "one of the guys." I never have to worry about looking my best or having the perfect outfit, because they aren't going to care about that. They're going to care that I made it, not what I showed up in.
Finally, I never have to worry that one day, they'll just drop me for no reason at all. When you are the only girl on the team, you are just part of the brotherhood. We all know that men usually stay friends a lot longer than females. So, 5 years from now, I'll probably still be hanging out with the same squad of guys. Meanwhile, you'll be on your 5th group of "girlfriends." I've been friends with the same guys for 6-7 years. My longest friendship with a girl has never lasted longer than 3.
The "whores" are the ones that look down on girls like me. Why? They're jealous. They can't hang out with the guys, because they don't have enough in common, so they date them. Once they break up, the girl like me is the bad guy. It was my fault, because your boyfriend didn't call you back. It was my fault your boyfriend wanted to hang with me AND the guys one time this week, instead of hanging out with you. So, I must be messing with the squad, because that is the only thing that can justify why you and your boyfriend didn't work out. Sorry, honey, but you wouldn't have worked out anyways. It's not me, it's you. Stop hating girls like me for wanting to hang out with men, when females are so much worse. I'm a female, and I cannot stand hanging out with girls. So what? That doesn't mean that I am messing around or a slut, it means that I just don't want to deal with the drama and sensitivity of another female. Handling myself is enough.
I'm the girl that only has guy friends, and I wouldn't change a thing.
