To The Best Friends I Don't See Often

To The Best Friends I Don't See Often

I know that you will always be there for me, no matter how far apart we are.

Maybe college can separate us on the map, but nothing will ever break our bond. Although we may not talk or see each other every day, I know that I can always count on the two of you to be there for me no matter what.

Senior year is what really brought all of us together. Sitting in study hall bored out of our minds every day really led us to have this bond that I never had with any other friends. Getting to go to the cafe together during study hall even though our teacher was against groups going was one of my favorite parts of that year because we would all get to leave our cold, quiet room in the corner for a while and get to walk around together.

I am so lucky to have both of you, and I don’t know what I would do without you. You make me feel like I’m a part of something, a group that I never had, a long-lasting friendship that I have always dreamed of.

So now, being 26 miles and 280 miles away from each of you, sometimes I get a little lonely without you by my side. But, whenever I need you or whenever you need me we’re always there to answer our phones. Seeing you on breaks is what makes home feel like home, and whenever our breaks don’t overlap and you come to visit you make Delaware feel like a piece of home is here too.

Getting notifications from both of you brightens my day every time, and I know that we don’t talk enough. When we do talk we all just pick up where we left off and we catch everyone up on what’s been happening in our lives. That’s the friendship that I’ve always needed. No one in our little group ever feels out of place or anything like I may have felt in fake high school friend groups. We’re all so similar and it feels like we’re really meant to be best friends.

From planning beach trips for this summer to talking about concerts to scheduling trips down to Delaware for weekends out, I know that with you I will always have a good time. Being able to talk to the two of you about absolutely anything is the best part about us. I know that I can trust you with absolutely anything that may be going on in my life and that’s just how the three of us always are.

So maybe I don’t get to see you two everyday like I did in high school. Maybe we don’t talk everyday. Maybe things are changing. What I know for sure is that we will all always be there for each other through everything. We’re all lucky to have each other because each of us gels so well with the other two that it just makes being together that much better as a friend group. See you May 24 loves.



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You May Have Worn The Prom Dress With Him, But I Get To Wear The Wedding Dress

You had him in high school, but I get him for the rest of my life.

High school seems like the best time of your life when you are in it. You think that all of your friends will be with you until the end, and that you will end up with whoever you are dating your senior year. For very few, that might just be the case. For all others, that is far from true.

You thought that you would marry your boyfriend and you thought that everything would work out how you had always imagined. I don't blame you though. He's great. You wanted everything with him, but you were just not right for him.

I wish I could say that I am sorry it didn't work out for you, but I can't. I can't because he is mine now, and I get to cherish him forever. You didn't do that right, and you were not meant to be together. You will find someone too, but I am happy that you were not the one for him.

Sometimes I have issues with jealousy, and I hate that you got all of the high school stuff with him. You got to go to games and support him. It kills me that I couldn't be there for him because I know I would have actually been there wholeheartedly. I would have done it out of love, not as a popularity appearance.

I hate that you got to go to all of the school dances with him. He got to see you all dressed up and probably told you how great you looked. I'm sure you did look great. Prom dresses were always fun to pick out and so colorful. It was exciting to match colors with your date. I am sure you had fun choosing his matching tux to your dress.

I find myself getting jealous, but then I stop. I am getting to match his tux with our wedding colors. I got to go dress shopping in a sea of white, and he doesn't get to know one detail about that dress yet. He will get to see me walk down the aisle and then every day forever. I get to love him forever.

I try to not get jealous of all of the things you got with him because it is all in the past. You had your time, and now I get the wedding. You got to dress up in high school, but I get to dress up for my wedding with him. He may have put a corsage on your wrist, but he will be putting the wedding ring on my finger.

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5 Things I Don't Know How To Do But Should've Learned Years Ago, As Told By The Kardashians

In my opinion, there should be college classes completely based on mastering these topics.


There are many things that I don't know how to do yet. These, however, are things that I am now realizing are things I maybe should have learned a long time ago. Things that if I knew anything about them, it would improve my life exponentially. Hopefully some of you feel the same and we can learn together.

1. How to cook chicken

Seems easy, but this is deceivingly difficult. No one tells you what type of chicken to get, and there are so many options. Like, do you get chicken breast or chicken cutlet or chicken tenders? Which way is the best way to cook it? Pan fry, bake, deep fry, poach, steam, etc! And how do you make it not taste like paper? What, like, spices do you put on it? In my last year of college I have made it my duty to learn how to make every type of chicken.

2. How to work a dishwasher

So, I know how to put the plates and silverware in, obviously. And I always clean them off before because I never trust the dishwasher soap to get everything off. How would it? And where exactly does the little dishwasher soap go? No one tells you where the leetle hole is that the soap bar goes. There's like three different holes in the door thing, and how are you supposed to know which one the soap goes in? Just guess and hope for the best? That's what I do.

3. How to pay your taxes??? Literally how

No matter who I ask, young or old, no one understands anything about taxes. I have been working since I was 17 and year after year when I ask my parents for help filing my taxes, they agree begrudgingly while squinting at the paper pointing at the little boxes with a "I think it's that one." I have never and will never understand anything to do with taxes, period. I will leave this to the professionals.

4. How to do anything with insurance, ever

Once again, wtf? Do the companies make these things impossible to understand on purpose? Like, all I want is to get my birth control from CVS and be done. Is that so hard? Why do I have to switch it to Walgreens (to whom I am NOT brand loyal, to, by the way) and then check if they cover my insurance? And WTF is a copay? And there's something that you pay before you get a copay? All I'm gonna say is that my mom tried to explain it to me once and it went in one ear and out the other.

5. How to arrange a cheese board

This is something that I feel shows you have truly made it at an adult. You have people over to your house and just throw together a lovely charcuterie board for your guests like its nothing. But what do you buy for it? Cheese, obviously. Meats? What types of cheese and meat? Grapes? Nuts? And how do you arrange it to look all pretty? Mark my words: when I can make a yummy and visually appealing cheese board, I've made it.

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