After three weeks of being home, I have been able to reflect on the lessons I learned my first year. Through laughter and tears, I have grown as a person and these are the most important things I learned.

1. Not all friendships last.

It is okay to go through a few sets of friends during your first year. Find the ones you can be 100% yourself with and those who bring out the best in you. You are NOT a bad person for not being friends with everyone.

2. Letters don’t matter.

Whether you are part of a top tier sorority/fraternity or a GDI, it does not matter. In the words of Bernard Baruch “Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

3. It is okay to gain weight or lose weight.

New environments, stress, and a completely new lifestyle can take a toll physically. Weight can fluctuate so much during your first year, but as long as you feel healthy and confident then no one else's opinion matters.

4. Set a schedule.

This may sound dumb, but most people have been on a schedule their whole life and college should not be any different. New found freedom accompanied by early classes and late nights out can lead to stress on your body: physically and mentally.

5. Ask for help.

Whether it be for homework, cleaning, or mental health it is perfectly normal to ask for help. You are not weak for asking nor are you your own mistakes. Ask your friends, professors, or family for help no matter what.

6. Find something you enjoy.

Dance, writing, volunteering, whatever you enjoy do it! Take time to do yoga or binge watch your favorite show and have a breather once in a while.

7. Have fun!

Go to that party or do a late movie night. Everything goes by so quickly and life is too short to just be worrying about school work.