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I Moved To College For An Education And Found A Best Friend Along The Way

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Bailey VanderVeen

The big acceptance letter came quicker than I expected. I danced around my living room with the packet in my hands and I began to think about how I was #RhodyBound. A giant smile stretched across my face and began to make my cheeks hurt. This was it… I was going to college.

The next thing to do, besides obviously putting "URI '22" in my Instagram bio, was to join the class Facebook page and find myself a roomie. I didn't really want to go random but if that's your jam, go for it!

Scrolling through pictures of strangers, trying to gauge who you want to spend the next eight months living with, is an odd phenomenon. You see things you have in common with them and hope that maybe that'll be enough to make your living situation for the next two semesters a breeze.

When you do find the right one though, I feel like it can go one of three ways:

1. You meet in person and y'all don't really click the way you thought you would. You're friendly, but you're not BFFs, which again, is totally fine.

2. You meet in person and everything seems OK at first, but you slowly begin to realize you should definitely NOT be roommates... Beef insues.

3. You meet in person and eventually become the best of friends. You hang out with each other's friends, tell each other stories, imagine your weddings together, go for random drives at 2 a.m., and... OK, you get it. You become super close.

Lucky for me, my roommate and I fall under that third category. I showed up that first day with all of my stuff and felt so so welcome. She helped me unpack and even brought me Dunkin' coffee because all of her stuff was unpacked before me. I am so so so thankful for her because I know some people aren't so fortunate.

I've heard so many horror stories. Before going to college, I watched way too many videos about College Roommate Horror Stories and read articles about how your roommate, especially freshman year, will be the WORST. I'm here to tell you that that isn't always the case.

Sometimes you find a best friend in the process.

Sometimes you get to room with someone who makes you laugh super hard for no reason.

Sometimes you find a roommate who shares your love for "Mamma Mia!" and sings like crazy with you.

Incoming freshman, if I can leave you with one little piece of advice, it's this:

When you do join those Facebook groups and are in search of a roommate, be 100%, genuinely, candidly YOU. Talk about how nerdy you are, post funny pictures of yourself, and don't be afraid to reach out first. You might just end up finding someone you'll have in your life forever.

P.S. Tori, you're my girl and I love you a lot lot lot.

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I Moved To College For An Education And Found A Best Friend Along The Way

Can't wait to be in each others weddings.

1. You meet in person and y'all don't really click the way you thought you would. You're friendly, but you're not BFFs, which again, is totally fine.

2. You meet in person and everything seems OK at first, but you slowly begin to realize you should definitely NOT be roommates... Beef insues.

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And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

Obviously the best superpower.

There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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