As a first-semester freshman, I have certainly experienced many ups and downs. From absolutely loving my classes to convincing myself that I will never make friends, I have gone through every best- and worst-case scenario in my head. But, I am fortunate enough to go to a great school surrounded by great friends who have helped me get through the semester. Being in a completely new place surrounded by people you know nothing about sounds like the perfect idea for a reality TV show, but it's not. It's college. Through all of the ups and downs, there are many lessons a freshman will learn that will carry them throughout the rest of the year, and possibly the next four.
1. Your friends from home are important, but don't let that distract you from making new friends
If you're anything like me, you are lucky enough to have a wonderful group of friends from home. I talk to them everyday, and regularly FaceTime a handful of them. But, for a while, it might have prevented me from making those vital connections with new people during orientation week. It's a dangerous mindset to think that because you have friends at home, you don't need new friends at school. Your friends from home aren't the ones you're going to the dining hall with, or cramming for a test with. Your new friends at school might not last all four years, but they are important for a better transition.
2. Not everyone parties
Every movie about college entails wild parties and numerous unforgettable nights. But, that's not always realistic. Sure, partying seems to be an essential part of college, but it isn't for everyone. If partying isn't your thing, there are numerous weekend opportunities on and off campus that can be just as fun. Don't feel pressured to do something you are not comfortable with, and hang out with like-minded people in order to have a safe, fun time.
3. Remember your family at home, and talk to them as much as possible
I know it's easy to get wrapped up in what's going on around campus, and that's great! But, it's important to remember you have people at home who
care about you and want to hear about your experience. It's no harm to call your mom on the way back from class, or text your dad as you get your grades back. You should never totally wrap yourself up in what's going on at home so you don't come down with homesickness, but family is important, and they should know it.
4. College is a time to find yourself; you don't have to go in with a plan
I know that sounds cliched, but college is a time to find yourself and what you like. I'm fortunate enough to be
happy with my major, but I have had friends who have already decided to change their major, and that's OK. Being a freshman, especially at a liberal arts college, is a great opportunity to try new things out. Everyone's college experience is different, so make the most of your own, and don't stress about the little stuff.
