FOMO: The Noun Of Our Generation

FOMO: The Noun Of Our Generation


The Urban Dictionary defines the new term FOMO (noun) as: "a state of mental or emotional strain caused by the fear of missing out." Ten years ago, if someone said FOMO everyone would look at that person like they had ten heads. Now, it has gotten to the point where parents, teachers, and your peers understand what FOMO means. I’ve found myself using this jargon in my everyday speech and sometimes it just seems so perfect to say at the time. I can’t help but think, has FOMO consumed my life? Why is FOMO a thing? Is there really a slang term for this state of mind? FOMO is a complex noun that just might be destroying our generation.

I’ve been in a room with several of my friends and although other PEOPLE surround us, we are still scrolling through our phones, watching Snapchat stories, and looking through Instagram. Between the scrolling, we have held lengthy conversations about other people’s Snapchat stories. Saying stuff like, “I can’t believe they’re all together” or “what? They went in the city today? For what?” Instead of saying things like, “wow that’s really cool,” everyone has become obsessed with events that other people are partaking in while they are not there. Whether we like it or not, our generation has become a victim of FOMO.

Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat: they’re all reminders of parties we weren’t invited to, lunches we weren’t included in, and selfies that we couldn’t fit into. In my opinion, FOMO is the main thing that keeps social media apps alive. Posting a picture of you and all of your friends on Instagram can show how much fun you are having, but it also shows all of your followers how much you're having without them. People are constantly saying how our generation is addicted to social media, which includes posting, liking and friending/following. But, in reality, we aren’t addicted to social media. We are consumed with the ideas that someone else is doing something that we are not included in. FOMO has become like a drug that we can’t help but become consumed by.

One of my friends gave me some wise advice before my freshman year of college, “If you don’t have FOMO, you’ll make and keep friends for much longer.” At first, I just took it as a small piece of advice. After thinking about it, it’s really true. I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve checked Snapchat and seen people storying each other and have felt left out. Some people might say that it’s pathetic that I feel like that over a lousy Snapchat, but I can bet that there are plenty of people looking at their screens and nodding their heads with me. FOMO won’t consume you if you don’t care about one of the most important human concerns: inclusion.

Humans naturally want to feel included, loved, and welcomed into a group. Whether that is a sports team, a club, a fraternity, or a sorority, we are constantly looking for inclusion so that we, as humans, can be a part of something greater than ourselves. Not having FOMO is easier said than done because social media is constantly giving us reminders that we are not a part of something. Every second we check our Instagram feed it is another reminder of something that we were not welcomed at. Life might be better without FOMO, but because of the technologically booming society we live in, FOMO will consume us, as individuals, for life.

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College As Told By Junie B. Jones

A tribute to the beloved author Barbara Parks.

The Junie B. Jones series was a big part of my childhood. They were the first chapter books I ever read. On car trips, my mother would entertain my sister and me by purchasing a new Junie B. Jones book and reading it to us. My favorite part about the books then, and still, are how funny they are. Junie B. takes things very literally, and her (mis)adventures are hilarious. A lot of children's authors tend to write for children and parents in their books to keep the attention of both parties. Barbara Park, the author of the Junie B. Jones series, did just that. This is why many things Junie B. said in Kindergarten could be applied to her experiences in college, as shown here.

When Junie B. introduces herself hundreds of times during orientation week:

“My name is Junie B. Jones. The B stands for Beatrice. Except I don't like Beatrice. I just like B and that's all." (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 1)

When she goes to her first college career fair:

"Yeah, only guess what? I never even heard of that dumb word careers before. And so I won't know what the heck we're talking about." (Junie B. Jones and her Big Fat Mouth, p. 2)

When she thinks people in class are gossiping about her:

“They whispered to each other for a real long time. Also, they kept looking at me. And they wouldn't even stop." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 66)

When someone asks her about the library:

“It's where the books are. And guess what? Books are my very favorite things in the whole world!" (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 27)

When she doesn't know what she's eating at the caf:

“I peeked inside the bread. I stared and stared for a real long time. 'Cause I didn't actually recognize the meat, that's why. Finally, I ate it anyway. It was tasty...whatever it was." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 66)

When she gets bored during class:

“I drew a sausage patty on my arm. Only that wasn't even an assignment." (Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren, p. 18)

When she considers dropping out:

“Maybe someday I will just be the Boss of Cookies instead!" (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 76)

When her friends invite her to the lake for Labor Day:

“GOOD NEWS! I CAN COME TO THE LAKE WITH YOU, I BELIEVE!" (Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy, p. 17)

When her professor never enters grades on time:

“I rolled my eyes way up to the sky." (Junie B., First Grader Boss of Lunch, p. 38)

When her friends won't stop poking her on Facebook:

“Do not poke me one more time, and I mean it." (Junie B. Jones Smells Something Fishy, p. 7)

When she finds out she got a bad test grade:

“Then my eyes got a little bit wet. I wasn't crying, though." (Junie B. Jones and the Stupid Smelly Bus, p. 17)

When she isn't allowed to have a pet on campus but really wants one:


When she has to walk across campus in the dark:

“There's no such thing as monsters. There's no such thing as monsters." (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed, p. 12)

When her boyfriend breaks her heart:

“I am a bachelorette. A bachelorette is when your boyfriend named Ricardo dumps you at recess. Only I wasn't actually expecting that terrible trouble." (Junie B. Jones Is (almost) a Flower Girl, p. 1)

When she paints her first canvas:

"And painting is the funnest thing I love!" (Junie B. Jones and her Big Fat Mouth, p. 61)

When her sorority takes stacked pictures:

“The biggie kids stand in the back. And the shortie kids stand in the front. I am a shortie kid. Only that is nothing to be ashamed of." (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed, p. 7)

When she's had enough of the caf's food:

“Want to bake a lemon pie? A lemon pie would be fun, don't you think?" (Junie B. Jones Has a Monster Under Her Bed p. 34)

When she forgets about an exam:

“Speechless is when your mouth can't speech." (Junie B. Jones Loves Handsome Warren, p. 54)

When she finds out she has enough credits to graduate:

“A DIPLOMA! A DIPLOMA! I WILL LOVE A DIPLOMA!" (Junie B. Jones is a Graduation Girl p. 6)

When she gets home from college:

"IT'S ME! IT'S JUNIE B. JONES! I'M HOME FROM MY SCHOOL!" (Junie B. Jones and some Sneaky Peaky Spying p. 20)

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