8 Lessons for the First-Semester College Athlete

8 Lessons For The First-Semester College Athlete

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You dreamed of being here. You worked as hard as you could to meet this one goal. You gave everything you had to get here. Welcome. Give yourself a quick pat on the back. The first semester of college sports is a whole whirlwind of emotions from fear to excitement to disappointment to stress to pure bliss. Here are 8 things I learned in my first semester as a college athlete that I remind myself every day.

1. Trust the process. 

Everything comes in time, and people will get what they deserve. Don't give up on your self-improvement because you don't see immediate results.

2. Think big picture.

This is only the first semester of your first year in collegiate athletics. Relax. Breathe a little. Don't be consumed by one bad day at practice. Move on. The past is the past. There is plenty of future to worry about.

3. Control the controllable.

There are only two things that you can realistically control, your effort and your attitude. And the minute you think that you can control someone else is the minute you will fall behind. Be your best every day. Go to bed being able to say, "I gave everything I had to give today."

4. Mistakes are inevitable.

You will get farther in life if you accept failure with open arms. Greet it like an old friend. If you are afraid to fail, you will never improve.

5. Step up in every opportunity you are given. 

Chances are few and far between. Make the most of every chance, no matter how small. Don't take them for granted, because once you step up, everyone else will be on your heels.

6. Nothing comes easy. 

Come ready to work, or don't come at all. You're either all in, or in the way. Opportunity will rarely be handed to you. So, work your hardest when no one is looking, so that when that opportunity is on the line, you can take it.

7. Play for those who can't.

Play for those who can't, because someday, that could be you. Play for those who can't, because someday you could be the one with a career-ending injury. Play for those who can't, because there will come a day when your competitive career comes to an end. Play for those who can't, because you never know what can happen. Play every game like it's your last.

8. The game is small.

Life is more than a sport. It's more than a game. It's more than a playoff run, it's more than a championship appearance. Enjoy the little moments in between those games, in between those playoff runs and championship appearances. Enjoy the bus rides where you belt out the lyrics to everyone's favorite song. Enjoy the moments off the ice, field, or court. Enjoy the victory dinners and the movie nights after a tough loss. The game is small, make memories that will last longer than your athletic ability.

An unwritten lesson: listen to your coaches, listen to your captains, listen to your teammates. They just might give you lessons that you can pass on to the next round of first-semester athletes.

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2. Hopefully entering your name into the lottery to get presale tickets

3. Finding out that you actually get to buy presale tickets

4. Impatiently waiting for your presale tickets by listening to their songs on repeat

5. And remembering how obsessed you used to be (definitely still are) with them

6. Trying to coordinate the squad to go to the concert with you

7. Waiting in the Ticketmaster waiting room...

8. ...And feeling super frantic/frustrated because there are about 2000 people in line in front of you

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10. Frantically trying to find seats you can actually pay for because, let's be real, you're twenty-something and poor

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Severus Snape Is The Worst, And Here's Why

Albus Severus, sweetie, I'm so sorry...


I grew up being absolutely obsessed with the Harry Potter franchise. I read the books for the first time in second and third grade, then again in middle school, and for the third time in my last year of high school. Recently, I had a somewhat heated argument with a fellow fan of the books about Severus Snape. As I've reread the Harry Potter books, I've noticed that, although J.K. Rowling tried to give him a redemption arc, he only got worse because of it. Here's why I still think Severus Snape is the absolute worst.

His love for Lily Potter was actually really creepy. When I was younger and reading the books, I always found the fact that he held fast in his love for Lily to be very endearing, even noble. However, rereading it after going through a couple of relationships myself, I've come to realize that the way he pined over her was super creepy. It was understandable during his time at Hogwarts; he was bullied, and she was the only one who "understood" him. However, she showed zero interest, and if that didn't clue him into realizing that he should back off, her involvement with James Potter should have. She was married. He was pining after a married, happy woman. If he truly loved her, he would have realized how happy she was and backed off. Instead, he took it out on her orphan son and wallowed in bitterness and self-pity, which is creepy and extremely uncool. When a girl is kind to a boy during high school (or in this case, wizard school), it's not an open invitation for him to pine for her for the literal rest of his life and romanticizes the absolute @#$% out of her. It's just her being a decent person. Move on, Severus.

He verbally abused teenagers. One of the most shocking examples of this is in The Prisoner of Azkaban when Snape literally told Neville Longbottom that he would kill his beloved toad, Trevor if he got his Shrinking Potion wrong, and then punished him when he managed to make the potion correctly. Furthermore, poor Neville's boggart was literally Snape. The amount of emotional torture Neville must have been enduring from Snape to create this type of debilitating fear must have been almost unbearable, and even if Snape was simply trying to be a "tough" professor, there is no excuse for creating an atmosphere of hostility and fear like he did in his potions class for vulnerable students like Neville. In addition, he ruthlessly tormented Harry (the last living piece of Lily Potter, his supposed "true love," btw), and made fun of Hermione Granger's appearance. Sure, he might have had a terrible life. However, it's simply a mark of poor character to take it out on others, especially when the people you take it out on are your vulnerable students who have no power to stand up to you. Grow up.

He willingly joined a terrorist group and helped them perform genocide and reign over the wizarding world with terror tactics for a couple of decades. No explanation needed as to why this is terrible.

Despite the constant romanticization of his character, I will always see the core of Severus Snape, and that core is a bitter, slimy, genocidal, manipulative trash being. J.K. Rowling's attempt to redeem him only threw obsessive and controlling traits into the mix. Snape is the absolute worst, and romanticizing him only removes criticism of an insane man who just so happened to be capable of love (just like the vast majority of the rest of us). Thank you, next.

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